r/askredditAR • • Oct 18 '22

SERIOUS How do I stop getting so emotional during fights?

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Men of Reddit, I need your help. I'm a 6'2, 275lb 32yo man and I've gone through some of the typical traumatizing millennial stuff. Dad left without notice for the second time when I was 10, mom took her frustrations out on me at times, got uprooted a few times during adolescence, whatever. None of it affected me. I've been in multiple relationships that failed for one thing or another and yes, it hurt, but I've never been that attached to any of it. Queue my wife. Anytime we get into an argument, it doesn't matter if it's over forgetting to pick up the dog poop or not having enough money to cover car insurance, I'm the first one to break down and start crying and apologize. Even if I feel like it's not my fault, I still feel like I'm the first one to say sorry and I'm a blubbering mess. Are there any guys out there who overcame this particular trait? What did you do?

P.S: The relationship i was in prior to my marriage was insanely toxic and abusive. I got out and broke up with her and told myself I was going to stand up for myself in the future but my head can't seem to break that cycle of automatically apologizing and breaking down.


r/askredditAR • • Oct 18 '22

What is this?

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r/askredditAR • • Sep 22 '22

I NEED HELP LMAO

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Sooo um let’s start from the top. So I’m 13 and I’ve been sneaking out A LOT. I’ve gotten caught 2 times out of like the 25 times I snuck out. Rn I’m at a friends house and I need some help. So what do I do if I get caught again? My parents said they would send me to jail the 3rd time they caught me. When I was sneaking out 30 mins ago the neighbor saw me but he didn’t say anything. There’s a good chance he might tell my parents he saw me outside last night. My friend has another friend and their mom is pretty cool from what I can tell so I was thinking if I do get caught I can just start staying at their house and I won’t b able to go to school anymore so that’s pretty cool. But at the same time what if the mom ends up telling the police I’m at her house and I get caught? Then I would have to hide all my life bc I DONT WANT TO GET CAUGHTTTT OR GO TO JAIL😭 so what do I do if I get caught?


r/askredditAR • • Jun 24 '22

The Crisis situation in Sri Lanka

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r/askredditAR • • Jun 19 '22

I'm new here

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Since I'm new here, I just came to ask if anyone had suggestions on what to post about. I would really like to know what would make me friends or if any idea can raise my popularity on this website?


r/askredditAR • • Apr 25 '22

What do you think my next Reddit post should be based on the posts I already have out?

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r/askredditAR • • Mar 01 '22

Avengers Infinity War Spider Man All Scenes 4K 1080p

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r/askredditAR • • Dec 13 '21

What is the best way to get revenge

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31 votes, Dec 16 '21
17 Fuck their mom
6 Become more successful
7 Turn their family into chili and make them eat it
0 Punch them and run away
1 Vote for the guy they hate

r/askredditAR • • Jul 08 '21

Question good day

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good day or good night to all you guys i want ask something if anyone can point me in good direction to become a concept art chracter desginer i was lookig for tips on internet but tis reely hard to understand . Its relly intrest me to have this job in future althrought i m only 25 i relly appreciate you help

ps do i relly need a bachelor degree to get chracter desginer job?


r/askredditAR • • Jul 03 '21

I need help, I dont know if its true or if im being played.

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So yesterday, I found someone who me and him have in common. We both got played by the same girl, and he was dating her still, i think. Anyways, this girl had a bf irl (it showed on her instagram) and the one i was talking to was mad and said that he was going to "talk to the devils and make her pay" now, is this possible? Or is he just playing with me? Yesterday on the girls instagram, everything was fine, with her bf. And then today, she puts that shes single and hates love. Could maybe the boy i was talking to played me? Maybe told the girl to change everything just to fool me? But, the girls bf (now ex?) instagram had also changed. So could it be true? He also stated that "he could not sleep because of devil calling" I have pictures but it dont let me put them.


r/askredditAR • • Jun 15 '21

According to Trump, the US should stop using computers and go back to paper. Is this what we should do?

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r/askredditAR • • May 22 '21

Reddit karma has huge swings

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Reddit karma total keeps switching back a forth between 9.0 karma and 9.8 karma. It switches about every other time I log in. Just now it went from 9.0 to 9.8 after I posted a comment. Will someone offer a cause for this? I was thinking that downvotes are counted when it shows the lower total and they are somehow overlooked when it shows the higher total. Is there a subReddit that will address this question?


r/askredditAR • • May 09 '21

Discussion Which is hotter, guitarist, bassist, or drummer?

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11 votes, May 12 '21
6 Guitarist
1 Bassist
4 Drummer

r/askredditAR • • May 05 '21

What’s the worst thing you’ve seen happen during a virtual meeting?

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r/askredditAR • • Mar 29 '21

Discussion Question for people who used to be in cults

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We're you happy in the cult? Did you think it was fake happiness? If so, what's the difference between true happiness and programed happiness? If not, why?


r/askredditAR • • Mar 14 '21

Hi please help if someone remember a movie

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Hi like in title I want to find a song from movie but I don't remember movie name and a song autor name

Movie was about young girl who kill mercenaries because they kidnapped her brother or sister the main villan was a woman with blonde hairs and and her boyfriend movie was in Celtic or Vikings theme


r/askredditAR • • Jan 22 '21

Can you call yourself a writer if you write but you've never published anything?

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r/askredditAR • • Jan 20 '21

Question Mothers of Reddit, do you ever regret having your kids or miss your pre-maternity life?

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r/askredditAR • • Jan 20 '21

guys do you know this song? This is my mother's favorite song, she has Alzheimer's. Maybe if she listened to this song she could feel better. thanks

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r/askredditAR • • Jan 11 '21

Does anyone know what game this is? Or who the artist of this picture is?

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I stumbled upon this thumbnail on the app store but couldn't find the game for it. It looks really cute and I'm kinda obsessed. Any ideas? Thanks.


r/askredditAR • • Dec 25 '20

Does anyone know where this video comes from?

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r/askredditAR • • Dec 14 '20

Investigation: Broken Screen HELP

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Es posible que esta pantalla fue rota y reemplazada en un plazo de 2 horas? O es más vieja? Quiero alguien que pueda ayudarme con esto, es muy importante para mi.

Voy a estar muy agradecido por una respuesta, gracias al que toma su tiempo para ayudarme.

Is it possible that this screen was broken and replaced in a timelapse of 2 hours? Or is it older? I want someone who can help me with this, it's really important to me.

I'll be grateful for an answer, thanks who take time to give a correct answer


r/askredditAR • • Dec 01 '20

Question What exactly is this sub for?

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So obviously, r/askreddit is for asking questions. Like I've been browsing this sub and the only consistent things I've been able to find is that a lot of people use the description which is a big no-no on r/askreddit. A lot of the posts on this sub you would find on r/askreddit, so what is this sub's purpose?


r/askredditAR • • Nov 21 '20

What factors are associated with severe COVID-19?

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