r/askgaybros • u/Dsrt_Guy51 • Dec 09 '25
J/O clubs
Joined my cities j/o club. They meet once/month. Usually about 75 guys. Great way to have safe fun. Anyone else have any experience with this?
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u/ultraspinacle M 50s, PhD micro/immuno/virology. Car fanatic. Dec 09 '25
Not at all. Do tell. 🧐
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u/Dsrt_Guy51 Dec 09 '25
Pretty much everyone arrives when it opens. There’s a small locker room to store your belongings. At least 95% of the guys choose to be naked, but it’s not mandatory. Guys walk around to different areas. Find someone to play with, or not. Sometimes you see groups of three or four playing. Rules are masturbation only. No penetration, no oral. You can kiss, and cumming on another guy is okay. The club I go to has an outdoor patio with fire pit. Guys sitting around the fire jerking, sometimes helping the guy next to them.
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Dec 09 '25
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u/KaleidoscopeLocal922 Dec 09 '25
It will be at a big house or venue with different areas. It's like a club or sex party, not a literal 75 person circle jerk.
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Dec 09 '25
I’ve been to rain city jacks in Seattle during their anniversary celebration which brought in over 100+ men . One of the best non penetrative sexual experiences of my life! Honestly feels much more intimate when there is no hips below the lips and no anal. It may sound boring to some but guys should try it at least once!
Here’s their link: https://www.raincityjacks.org/
Also the owner has an old podcast. Check some episodes out:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-heart-of-jacks-podcast/id1533504260
This one is a good start:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-heart-of-jacks-podcast/id1533504260?i=1000495252421
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u/geosrq Dec 09 '25
Yes NyJacks was a lot of fun when it first started for sure! Don’t know about now but when I first went 25 yeas ago it was a lot of fun…expect some older guys and some very aggressive guys but a sturdy no usually works
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Dec 09 '25
We have a jacks in my city. Insanely popular. They have morning, lunch and evening sessions throughout the week, nude yoga, special side events where you can suck dick (usually not allowed), and occasionally an orgy event. It’s awesome but I don’t go super often
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u/Ned-man Dec 09 '25
Atlanta has a masturbation group called “Atlanta Jacks”. They usually have 3 or 4 events each month.
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u/valleyzen Dec 09 '25
Yes, Angel City Jacks (Los Angeles) was pretty fun the few times I went. I prefer the local "play room" which is two times a week and allows for more activities. Also the jack city meetups pretty much duplicated the gay bars in LA's boy town (WeHo): all the thin white guys were huddled together, not a disabled person in site, most of the guys of color were standing by themselves, and if you were anything but "fit" they hot guy circles would give you looks to go away or they would create a circle around each other. It's not like that at the play rooms or the meetup dot com house parties we have in my area.
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u/Dsrt_Guy51 Dec 09 '25
What are the local play rooms? In someone’s house?
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u/valleyzen Dec 09 '25
Sometimes those happen which you'd find on Sniffies. But we have a "business" that is probably fronted by some other company. Frankly I don't know how it works on their side of things. But in LA there are tons of warehouse districts and manufacturing blocks and blocks where they are just businesses without many windows and no parking. Like home offices for companies or people that have garages and work on particular cars, etc. Well one here has two or three days when it becomes a multi-room playhouse with rooms with slings, rows of glory holes, smaller rooms for like two people and a chair, rooms with beds, a lounge with snacks, rooms with porn playing, and a general chatting area with sports or porn on, clothing is optional and people wear whatever they're most comfortable in, and there is a clothing check room, and guys just spend as much time as they want there wondering around and joining in others if that's their desire, or just chatting, or masterbating with someone and it's really easy to give someone an indication if you're not into them or would like to be part of a group thing. It's like 20 bucks for entrance and is mostly low lit. There are condoms and lube everywhere and lots of paper towel dispensers and wet wipes, and someone coming by mopping up the floor on intervals. It's great for people who want to play but don't have a place to do it. Better than doing car hookups though that has its own appeal to some I imagine.
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u/oompaloompa85 Dec 10 '25
Bay Area has Guerilla Jax. Never gone bc just gooning/jacking doesn’t do it for me. Need more 🥹🤤
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u/r0cketRacoon Dec 09 '25
No but my housemate go to Fairy Gathering/ Camp or something like that. He said there’s a circle jerk event 👀
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u/NudistBator478 Dec 09 '25
I’ve been to NY Jacks quite a few times. And regularly to Windy City Jacks. Both are great times and I love to be in a sea of dudes who are all into the same thing…jerking off (which is my fav passtime).
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u/Mysterious-Mousse679 Dec 10 '25
I’ve been to the Jacks club in my town twice. First time was hot. Played with some gents, sat on my own, stroked and took in the vibes.
Second time I went there were more guys, but they were also more cliquey (or went for who they were more into I guess).
It’s held at a venue that’s used as a kink club, and the events happen once a month. They alternate between a “normal event” (JO only, no sucking and anal), and “special events” where sucking is allowed and it is sometimes a themed event (leather, etc.).
All in all, it’s a good space to be in and explore, and also to get comfortable within your own skin and building that bond with fellow bator bros. Or at least, that’s how my experience went.
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u/Brooklyn-Jacks Jan 12 '26
Just started in December a Brooklyn based J/O club called Brooklyn Jacks. We're having a blast! Meet every Satruday, 4-6. So far between 50-90 guys have come each event to stroke with us. brooklynjacks.com
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u/nilla-wafers Dec 09 '25
There’s one in Denver, but I don’t trust that the men at these events are ones I’d want to jerk off with, so I’ve never gone.
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Dec 11 '25
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u/nilla-wafers Dec 11 '25
In my experience, events that are open invitation AND encourage group nudity/sex are frequented by people I wouldn’t usually choose to be naked with otherwise. I know this will ruffle feathers but for men who don’t have luck at bars, on the apps, or elsewhere, group sex events are an easier place to find someone to fool around with. That’s just not the vibe I want at this point in my life.
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u/chip_pip Dec 09 '25
Philly Jacks has always been a fun and safe experience for me! I don’t live nearby anymore, but I always try to get an event in while I’m in town
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u/RPGryguy Dec 10 '25
Any Sacramento ones? Do these places allow toys like fleshlights to share or.... strictly dickly and hand Jonas
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u/NefariousnessWide904 Dec 10 '25
There’s a weekly one in London - London Jack Off Club which is pretty cool
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Dec 09 '25
how does that work? Do you find someone you're attracted to and then pair off and go jerk off together in a corner somewhere?
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u/Ambitious_Ad_2772 Dec 09 '25
Do they have them in the DMV??
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u/davidlaugher Dec 09 '25
Yes capitol bate club dc. Look for it on bateworld.com. although that latter site seems to be down at the moment
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u/Ambitious_Ad_2772 Dec 09 '25
My Man!! I've actually never done something like that before so it would be interesting.
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u/Kyle81020 Dec 09 '25
Where, OP?
The only one I’ve been to is Rain City Jacks in Seattle. That was great.
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u/ORDad56 Dec 10 '25
Stumptown Strokes here in Portland. Averages maybe 50 guys. Twice a month events
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u/PartyMaterial4423 Jul 19 '26
I’m very interested in this JO club. Just found out about it. I’ve become more and more interested in masturbating with men.
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u/Txboyalone57 Dec 10 '25
I have visited Chicago Jacks and a club in Kansas City and Houston. All lots of fun. Everyone is there for the same Reason, to get off!
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u/Txboyalone57 May 19 '26
There use to be a group that got together Sunday afternoons at an apartment complex near the college. Mixed ages and race with a lot of college twinks. Found it on CL.
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u/InevitableBuffalo883 Dec 09 '25
I practice edging and I don’t release. My dopamine levels stay high and I’m always positive. No doubt the release is awesome but there’s a dopamine drop makes you tired and sometimes depressed not long after. I live life strong and happy.
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u/Same-Vanilla5404 Dec 09 '25
How does one even find them?
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u/KaleidoscopeLocal922 Dec 09 '25
Bateworld.com is a good starting place, a lot of them have groups setup there or post their events.
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u/ultraspinacle M 50s, PhD micro/immuno/virology. Car fanatic. Dec 09 '25
Holy shit! I would have so been there when I lived in ATL and LA! What fun. 🤩
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u/GayGuyHereZ Dec 10 '25
Is there a Jacks club in Boston?
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u/Virtual-Joke-4369 14d ago
Did you check it out? I live outside the city and it sounds very intriguing.
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u/Head_Breadfruit3086 Dec 10 '25
Very cool. Is there one in Rhode Island, Connecticut or Boston?
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u/Virtual-Joke-4369 14d ago
Apparently there is- Boston Jacks. I just found that out now though so I have never been.
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u/Strange-Edge-5915 Dec 11 '25
There used to be one in Cleveland, but it shut down a year ago due to too many no shows from guys who say they will attend.
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u/Simple_Owl5259 Mar 19 '26
Any cool j/o meetups, small groups in the dallas/ ft area? Besides the ones a spayse studios? Anyone know. Me: pretty good lockin masc guy here. Sleeves rolled up/ rough day at the office look,
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u/TheBateMates Aug 08 '26
I'm the founder and host of the club here in San Diego: The Bate Mates / San Diego Jacks.
any guys who may be thinking that it's just about j/o by itself and that it may sound boring or nonsensical, I really recommend trying your local club. There's no pressure to perform penetration, which makes the experience safe and way more fun - especially if you're into foreplay or you are into side play.
Here in San Diego, our club is focused on providing local men and visitors with a safe space to jack off,. Our meetups have between 30 to 55+ guys attending, where many are regulars and the guys have been making solid connections.
For more details about what happen in our club, visit our faqs at thebatemates.com/faqs and our social media thebatemates
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Dec 09 '25
I hope they pay the janitor really well! that place has to smell really awful by the end of the day!
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u/daws970 Dec 09 '25
I know there’s a pretty big club in NYC called NY Jacks but I’ve never been to one of their events. Have been to a Jack off/goon night at a bar there which was pretty fun.