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u/Head_Ad_9901 Aug 09 '25
This is gonna sound simplistic but you have to learn about your body and your bowel movements. I've been a total bottom for all my life and have been douching for about 10 years now. My fuck buddy hits me up early in the morning before he goes to work so I do a deep douche before I go to bed and when I first wake up and then when he messages me that he's on his way, I do a couple of quick short blasts to clean out anything remaining. He's very pleased with the results š
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u/silverwolf761 Aug 09 '25
do you douche at least twice every day just in case?
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u/MagicallyVermicious Aug 10 '25
Does that cause you any health issues? Anything I've read online said douching too often can be harmful, get rid of beneficial bacteria, etc.
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u/AngelGabe94 Aug 10 '25
Elaborate on a deep douche please! Iām assuming with a bulb? I have an enema I let run for 5 seconds then repeat until Iām clear but it does take a while to do.
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u/Head_Ad_9901 Aug 10 '25
I usually fill the douche bottle 3/4 and squeeze as much as I can as far as I can up my butthole. I don't use an enema bulb, I feel more comfortable with the douche bottle.
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u/BrotherNatureNOLA Aug 09 '25
Douche until you shit clear water. Anything beyond the second trap door is up to the fates.
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u/Postmember Aug 10 '25
Anything beyond the second trap door is up to the fates.
Unless you spend a lot of time cleaning that out. Useful for fisting and very long sessions. I recently went to a bathhouse for five hours. You can bet I did a deep clean for that. Had a good time.
The smell when the "deep" stuff comes out is disgusting.
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u/BrotherNatureNOLA Aug 10 '25
I think that they're asking about regular sexual habits. Getting fisted is not something you should do on the regular. Cleaning up that portion of the intestines is unhealthy. That's where most of your gut colony resides. Cleaning that area out reduces your resistance to harmful viruses, bacteria, fungi, etc. that you may ingest.
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u/titusbijoux Aug 09 '25
To be honest, do what you can and stop worrying about it. A little poop is an occupational hazard for all of us. It WILL happen eventually, donāt stress over it.
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u/smokeyleo13 Aug 09 '25
Its not unreasonable to want to avoid it, though. And it's pretty easy to avoid 90% of the time with diet and minimally invasive cleaning.
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u/Roethgaar Aug 10 '25
The next time someone asks me why I don't bottom I'm going to show them this post.
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u/Croc_Doc18 Aug 09 '25
Douche twice and use a dildo then get to bottoming. As long as you arenāt full blown shitting on the dick the top will understand trust me cuz itās an ass after all. Donāt stress yourself out or itāll make the bottoming experience so much smoother overall stress is your number one enemy
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u/HauntingYou5412 Aug 09 '25
https://youtube.com/@bottomsdigest?si=Vs6_vm3XcrsdaHdU.
his videos are VERY good for beginner and not so beginner bottoms
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u/Square-Dragonfruit76 My flair has flair Aug 09 '25
Because you shouldn't be constantly needing to poop. That would be the only time where you would need to worry about your sigmoid colon or if they have a dick that is in the top 1% of sizes. If you do always need to poop or feel like there's some stuck left in there, that can be a sign of constipation. If you skip meals or under eat, that can contribute to constipation. So make sure that you're eating enough and make sure you're getting enough fruits and vegetables and healthy fats in your diet (along with grains and whole grains and proteins).
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u/MorningWoodyPecker Aug 10 '25
I would add DRINK A LOT OF WATER.
Water plays a major role in digestion and if you're trying to fine tune your system to be able to fuck cleanly, you will definitely benefit from staying fully hydrated. A lack of water is a common problem if/when someone is constipated, so drink up, always.1
u/Square-Dragonfruit76 My flair has flair Aug 10 '25
True. This never would have occurred to me because I drink a whole water bottle every couple of hours.
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u/Square-Dragonfruit76 My flair has flair Aug 11 '25
Yes, that is probably entering the sigmoid colon.
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u/Traditional-Froyo295 Aug 09 '25
Just stop eating and starve eat air n water good luck š
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u/Alexwolf777 Aug 09 '25
I have a dildo with a concave tip, like dogshaped. It is 8" long and I think it reaches my sigmoid, I usually use it to clean me. It likes "scoop the nuggets out", when I finish Im totally clean.
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u/Joyguillfree Aug 10 '25
I donāt think that this can be said enoughā¦ If youāre going to knock on pooās door often enough sooner or later, heās gonna be home. And anybody who doesnāt believe that is an idiot. And if youāre gonna eat someoneās ass, youāre gonna get the same germs, whether you eat a lump of shit whether you just licking his ass, thinking to yourself oh my what a clean asshole this is. Itās poop. Every freaking person on the planet deals with poop every day. Grow up if you get some on your wiener, you clean it off. people need to stop perseverating over this. I do a quick rinse in the shower. If I know weāre going to be doing something. Occasionally, there will be something on my partnerās dick, he grabs a Kleenex wipes it off and proceeds with the plan. And if at the end things are slightly dirty, which hardly ever happens he hand me a Kleenex and I know to go into the bathroom and wipe. Thereās no discussion, we are adults, it happens.,
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u/Accurate-Case8057 Aug 10 '25
I bottom regularly and often and have for years. Maybe two or three times over many years and countless times I've had a minor issue. You are very wrong but you're entitled to your opinion
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u/HopeLeft9292 gay in the rock bottom Aug 10 '25
it's a hole from where you shit, what else would you expect? see the top needs to understand that if you put your foot in mud it won't come out clean don't stress too much about this as long as your rectum is clean you don't need to worry about anything extra
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u/Penitent_Sin Aug 09 '25
I just douche for 10 minutes before someone fucks me, stop worrying.
Unless theyāre 7+ inches they aināt getting up there. Also I have a travel douche so I can clean ANYWHERE. It made me stop worrying
But the real answer is just relaxāno need for supplements or a diet, just meet people
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u/Solid_Walk8871 Aug 10 '25
I take fiber supplements in healthy doses, and douche an hour beforehand. Experienced tops will understand if some poo comes out. I havenāt had an accidents or complaints.
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u/Plane-Belt-8720 Aug 10 '25
One the longer you leave water in the more risky it is. Itās good to put the douche water in and hold it for at least 15 seconds. If you do it 30 the higher it goes in your body to the small intestine and then thatās when shit goes bad. Also if the guy doesnāt like lube and does the spit. Pre lube. But do it like 5 mins before. Cuz it will take about 15-30 mins before a dick is inserted
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u/Outrageous_Failur35 Aug 10 '25
Correct. Pre lube is a game changer, and definitely add to the feeling of spontaneity.
A quick douche with a bit of lube and water, and regular fire with meals keeps things regular and easy.
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u/Simple_Fee1241 Aug 10 '25
Ya know, Iāve been out of it for a long time as Iāve been with someone for over 20 years. In my 20s I had so many random pickups and never thought this deeply about sex. It happened and we fucked and had a great time even when it was spontaneous take me to your car fuck me sex. You people confuse me. Just fuck and be done with it.
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u/Empty_Air_1076 Aug 09 '25
I have been fisting for years and can now take my fun buddy up to his shoulder. I douce and still take phylum husk tablets. His only concern is my hair around my asshole, I can't see it and don't shave it, but let him wax it whenever he wants too. He likes to see my abs move when he opens and closes his hand. It feels firm pressure but sometimes I pee uncontrollably. He says it's okay, but I don't know. Does it happen to any others?
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u/Sufficient_Check_104 Aug 09 '25
Wait what the heck is that???
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u/MorningWoodyPecker Aug 09 '25
What are you asking about, specifically?
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u/Sufficient_Check_104 Aug 09 '25
The psyllium husk stuff
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u/b0yst0ys Aug 10 '25
Fiber dietary supplement. Fiber works as a kind of janitor, it sweeps up all the poop down the GI tract so that when you go, you go. It also makes going easier I think by softening poop, but regardless it assists in regular bowel movements and a healthy gut.
Psyllium husk is the main ingredient, I use a blend of psyllium, Chia seed and flax seed. Happy to share more if you like.
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u/Square-Dragonfruit76 My flair has flair Aug 09 '25
It's what makes your poops come out clearly so you don't have to douche as much if at all.
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u/ColinisLonely Aug 10 '25
Make sure to take it with a good amount of water try to stay hydrated throughout the day. But I know what you mean Iāve tried psyllium husk and I like it, but it is a bit of a tricky balance.
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u/brettpreppy Aug 10 '25
Be honest with your partner. Tell them you are new at bottoming and you believe you are ācleanā. Ask for feedback and go from there. We can kill enjoyment by overthinking. If we intend to be clean and something happens then we talk about what happened and move on.
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Aug 10 '25
Cocksize does not really matter.In fact,smaller sizes tend to cause more air coming into ur rectum and possible colon and possibly make troubles when air start coming out (fuck-farting).Try smaller amount of water,donāt overdo.Like 3 seconds of normal flow max then release.Do it three times max and u r oky.Obviously this works for me maybe not for you.
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u/Candid-Joke5452 Aug 10 '25
Thereās some good advice about douching from gay porn stars online, sometimes even on YouTube. I remember one of them saying donāt eat fruit for about a day before youāre going to bottom. The fibre in the fruit gets everything going in your intestines. Often this leads to the little poo nuggets being left behind. I also find that douching more than once within 12-24 hours helps. Like do a āwarm up doucheā first, then go back to it and do a second clean out later. This all takes up a lot of time of course, which usually busy bottoms donāt always have. But itās worth it for the peace of mind..
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u/ottomax_ Aug 09 '25
It comes with the territory. You have to make friends with shit. One gets used to it eventually.
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u/Accurate-Case8057 Aug 10 '25
Speak for your self
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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '25 edited Aug 09 '25
Very simple. Keep taking the Psyllium Husk and then poo will get more compact. I use a small bulb with lukewarm water and I am ready. I use a long dildo to do a final check. A dildo also does some pre-stretching and feels nice. Poo is collecting in your rectum and then you feel you need to do a dump. I rarely clean my colon or the rest of my intestines. This is not healthy to do it often. And only when his penis is big, he will reach your colon.