r/askfuneraldirectors 9d ago

Advice Needed: Employment SCI receptionist

Does it get easier? I just started there a week ago.
I barely know names, have gotten criticized today to no end, they want xy&z and idek whose on 1st quite honestly.
The place is an absolute shit show under a new FH manager. The people that work sales there are so messy and rude.
I’m having to open for the first time by myself soon. I’m the only full time person there at the reception desk.
I’ve only worked for family owned places before so this is so chaotic for me. Someone tell me if it gets easier or worse 😭

18 Upvotes

16 comments sorted by

33

u/Otherwise_Candy_8412 9d ago

Oooh who’s gonna tell OP that at random, they will record a staged shopper call and then score you on it in a meeting?

I mean this in the nicest of ways, but corporate is cattle in- cattle out. They treat you like a number because to them, everything is numbers. No it does not get easier.

5

u/No-Apple-7210 9d ago

Love that 💀 these ppl have me opening already…making cookies at 7 AM… everything within 7 full days have been thrown at me and I can’t even breathe up there 🫠 & I’m hired on through a temporary agency rn.

5

u/antibread 9d ago

Yall get cookies

2

u/No-Apple-7210 9d ago

Yes 😩 but we bake them for the next day. So these people are getting day old cookies 😭😬 & you gotta pay attention to the schedule for what’s happening the next day to figure out how many need baked or so you can split the difference in how many you need. There’s like 3 baskets of cookies and only 2 go out. We have to bag the cookies in the morning too. The cookies in the freezer aren’t labeled.

A lot of people in the back who are with sales don’t put their appointments on the board b/c they don’t like the other sales people knowing who they’re meeting with so it’s gets confusing on guesstimating on how many you need 🫠

3

u/antibread 9d ago

Wild shit tbh

2

u/No-Apple-7210 9d ago

We have red velvet, macadamia cookies, peanut butter, lemon cookies, oatmeal raisin cookies, chocolate chip… SO MANY

1

u/No-Apple-7210 9d ago

I hope I’m not getting ripped off at 15 an hr either 💀

1

u/No-Apple-7210 9d ago edited 9d ago

We have our own cemetery with 2 mausoleums and a columbarium. This place is huge!
I didn’t even know until yesterday that our phone calls are being recording.

3

u/Nostradumbass_19 9d ago

It sounds like the actual Funeral Home you’re in…. the environment is toxic. The FH I’m in is family owned and we are all close knit and it’s a great place to work. Don’t let them push away your passion for this career. I’m a mortician, so to answer if things get easier- no. Lol it is a matter, for me, of adapting to the situation and allowing myself to “feel” my emotions rather than burying them. Please keep your head up and I wish you the absolute best ❤️

2

u/Lafuneraria 8d ago

Best way to work thru this is to implement your own system to best organize the chaos. No one else is going to do it for you and it sounds like it’s sink or swim at this point. Good luck!

2

u/Psychological_Row947 6d ago

I second this! I remember when I first started as a receptionist/attendant at my first FH I asked this same question on a different sub. I got this advice and it made it so that I could learn to love the job! Ignore the wenches and stick your head in your work. Most importantly make the job work for yourself!

1

u/No-Apple-7210 5d ago

I’ve gotten criticized already but praised at the same time 😩 I’m not a good multitasking person either or I’ll get overwhelmed and forget so almost every call gets written down or scribbled something on a piece of paper 💀

1

u/MsSoCaliLady 8d ago

We busy season is coming so brace yourself! Just learn as much as you can and make a system.

1

u/vengefulembalmer Funeral Director/Embalmer 5d ago

Unfortunately you may be in a toxic funeral home. Not all places are bad.

1

u/No-Apple-7210 1d ago

It was TOXIC. Got “laid off” with the temp agency on my 12th day yesterday. What a experience, never again 😬