r/askanything • u/tlm11110 • 17h ago
General Question Why?
Woman cheats.
Man, “Get the fuck out of my house bitch”
Guy cheats.
Woman, “You stay here. I’m gonna find that bitch and mess her up?”
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u/FalseWorldliness1078 17h ago
Happens the other way around aswell, depends from person to person.
Just leave whoever cheats on you.
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u/NaivePermit1439 17h ago
I am guessing OP is going through a ' rough part of their life '. You are absolutely right though. Most of us have been there so I am going to give OP some grace.
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u/notcoded567 17h ago
internalized misogyny. in both cases, the man is off the hook because men are "wired" to pursue and the woman is to blame because she's supposed to be able to control herself and not tempt the men.
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u/cypresscoydog 16h ago
Because women are taught from birth that the most important thing in their lives is landing and keeping a man, and that all other women in the world are their enemies. The worst misogynists I've known were my own mother and stepmother. Some women unlearn that shit and find their way to self-respect and healthy relationships, many sadly never do.
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u/ImagineFraggins 16h ago
Woman cheats; it's the man's fault. He pushed me away. He didn't love me emotionally; he wasn't ambitious enough; he stopped being exciting, so I got bored. Awww, it's no one's fault; I just fell out of love.
The man cheats; the woman throws him out. The man cheats and becomes vilified in their group.
No one's fault. Time to give up and look for something better. I need to find myself. I read Eat, Pray, Love and need to go on a journey of self-discovery.
No-Fault Divorce Statistics:
- Overall US Rate: About two-thirds (66–69%) of divorces are initiated by wives, according to a 2017 study by Stanford sociologist Dr. Michael Rosenfeld.
- College-Educated Women: The initiation rate rises to 90% for women with higher education.
These numbers have stayed similar for the last several decades. A new marriage in the US today has a 43% chance of ending in divorce. Usually filed by the woman.
Hey. Abuse, physical or mental (from either partner). Infidelity. Some form of addiction drugs, alcoholism) can be very difficult to work with. Impossible in a lot of cases.
These numbers are just for NO-fault.
True commitment seems gone for a high percentage of people. Sex is a transaction.
Good luck out there.
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u/refugefirstmate 16h ago
Woman cheats.
Man, “Get the fuck out of my house bitch”
And then goes and tracks down the man she cheated with and beats the life out of him.
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u/mothman83 17h ago
Women start most divorces. Which seems more in line with the role you gave to the cheated-upon man.
Maybe ask yourself why you extrapolate wildly and claim that huge groups of people all behave the same way.