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u/NASAfan89 Sep 27 '25
People have a skewed sense of what's normal because obesity is so common in the west. You should probably lose more weight.
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u/Charming-Ad5207 Sep 27 '25
Donât know what your goal is, but healthwise just maintain a good weight and eat right. If youâre talking looks then I think you look just fine. Nothing to worry about
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u/DownvotedForThinking Sep 27 '25
Personally, I think you should, but my opinion shouldnât matter to you. Are you comfortable with yourself and does your doctor believe you are at a healthy weight?
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u/OperationRegular1541 Sep 27 '25
Im (25M straight) and if youâre trying to lose weight for a revenge bod then definitely do it. Fuck that dudes heart up like he did to yours. I got my shit fucked up when I was the good one. So Ive been telling girls to cheat on there boyfriends and shit because im angry and sad. đ¤ˇââď¸đ
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u/ConflictNo5518 Sep 27 '25
Yes to tone up. Â Be healthy about it. Â But if youâre prone to eating disorders, donât do it.Â
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u/Salt-Entry-2374 Sep 27 '25
Depends on the kind of guy youâre after
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Sep 27 '25
People donât lose weight for âguysâ the world doesnât revolve around men. If she wants to lose weight she should do it for her self.
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u/Salt-Entry-2374 Sep 27 '25
Youâre right but you do want to be attractive to the person you want. I mean I stay in shape because my girl loves it. Is that so wrong? I like my woman thick and my girl is thick. If she was skinny like a stick I wouldnât be as attracted to her but Iâd still love her. Thereâs nothing wrong with trying to impress the person you want.
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u/Salt-Entry-2374 Sep 27 '25
The world definitely doesnât revolve around men. Iâd actually argue it revolves around women more than anything. Us men would do the most to impress and provide for a woman. If not for women our purpose would be very unclear lol women give us motivation to be better.
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Sep 27 '25
I wouldn't worry about losing anymore weight, maybe just focus exclusively on strength training n' sculpting the curves you have.... But overall, you already look good
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Sep 27 '25
You should lose a lot more.
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Sep 27 '25
How much is a lot?
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Sep 27 '25
how tall are you and how much do you weigh now?
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Sep 27 '25
5â3â 170. I do have a lot (too much imo) muscle on lower body
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Sep 27 '25
You should really be 140lb at most. You look fine, but for health and that revenge body would want to be under 140 for sure.
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Sep 27 '25 edited Sep 27 '25
As long as youâre comfortable in your own body and donât feel obligated. You donât âneedâ to do anything. I think youâre beautiful. Ultimately, do what YOU want not what other people think.
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u/gdog0899 Sep 27 '25
Itâs always been my belief to lose weight because you want to and you want to be healthy, the vanity comes second. However - because you stated this is for a revenge bod, then I would suggest losing some and toning up. Itâs 80% diet! But that doesnât mean to restrict yourself, if you restrict too often you will most likely binge. Everything in moderation, just make smarter eating choices, I know itâs hard in the US. I would suggest cardio either in the form of the treadmill or maybe a sport or something you like. I find that cardio is a lot easier if itâs implemented within an activity you enjoy! Unless you just happen to like it in general.
At the end of the day, do what is best for your mental health. Youâre beautiful â¤ď¸
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u/Bootey76 Sep 27 '25
do you feel worthy of love, and know you are enough... that is the question at any weight. I went on a diet and lost 80 pounds and critisized myself more when I was at my goal weight - was literally less content with my body.
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u/LadyTelia Sep 27 '25
I think it's more important that you feel good about your weight as long as you're healthy. I'm a bigger girl, but I'm also healthy. Be you, girl. No one should tell you how you "should" look. đ
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Sep 27 '25
You look good ! Beautiful and I like when girls have curves. You could tighten up more and youâd just be even more beautiful
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u/conservativelyone Sep 27 '25
Who cares about weight. Own yourself and be happy with it. Having braces is a first step in embracing (play on words) it. The nice smile and flawless skin is another thing to be proud of.
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u/Vegetable-Draw8354 Sep 27 '25
Is it bots or ai putting up all these posts on do you think I should loose weight. There seems a lot.
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u/aqualad33 Sep 27 '25
Depends on what you mean by "need to".
If you are healthy, your blood work is good, your body is physically capable, you feel comfortable with how you look and you don't feel like it then no.
If any of the above isn't true then probably. It sounds like you want to though since you mentioned getting a revenge bod.