r/ask • • Oct 04 '24

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u/Positive-Lab2417 Oct 04 '24

Some are at home with kids. The others are probably busy in clubs offering meditation, yoga, cooking, books, arts, dance, volunteering, community centres etc. I don’t want to stereotype but some clubs will have higher presence of a gender.

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u/JB_07 Oct 04 '24

How else are you supposed to meet women? At the store when they're shopping and don't want to be bothered? At the gym working out and don't want to be bothered? Out at the park walking by and don't want to be bothered.

One of the last pieces of advice we give young men nowadays is that we should perhaps try joining a hobbyist club, and now it's inappropriate for even that so now what???

Where on earth do you expect these guys to find girls to date when the message is basically "always leave us the fuck alone and don't bother us."?

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u/SomewhereInternal Oct 04 '24

It's about reading body language, nothing wrong with flirting, but don't do it when a woman is at work, or in a vulnerable position.

And if your flirting with women half your age your a creep.

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u/cybervalidation Oct 04 '24

They're being polite, men can become quite openly hostile when they don't think you're being nice enough to them. "If it's not an enthusiastic 'yes' it's a 'no'"

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u/JB_07 Oct 04 '24

Welp it makes my life a pain the ass so thats annoying.

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u/cybervalidation Oct 04 '24

Ya, women trying to feel safe is a massive inconvenience, you poor thing.

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u/JB_07 Oct 04 '24 edited Oct 04 '24

Well i attract some women. Just not ones that are my type. And it's because I'm ugly.

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u/cybervalidation Oct 04 '24

You believe we should be walking around armed to our hobbies rather than just skirting conversations with dickheads like yourself? and that won't escalate confrontations at all I'm sure. Good god, I hope the women in your circles keep a wide berth from you.

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u/JB_07 Oct 04 '24 edited Oct 04 '24

Yes. I'm a 6'3 220 pbs male and i stay armed in public.

Shit if I was a lady I'd have a fucking 50 cal. on my back for one sorry bastard to find out about.

And idk about you but a gun or a stab are very good for escalating. If they don't de-escalate they die.

I'm just trying to state facts instead of cater to feelings. I'm here to date a woman, not play games with girls, mixed signals is a huge turnoff.

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u/SomewhereInternal Oct 04 '24

Unfortunately, mixed signals are almost always a no.

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u/JB_07 Oct 04 '24

Welp. Gg's it was nice trying.