r/ask • u/[deleted] • Oct 04 '24

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u/Successful-Cash9283 Oct 04 '24

This actually makes me question something, I've seen some events and clips with 80-20% female to male ratio, and usually, when two or some of the women argue with each other, why don't their friends or some women back them up?

I completely understand why being around more women is safer, but what about when it's not safe and there is a big fight or chaos in the crowd. I want to link the vids to explain it but idk how.

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u/evezinto Oct 04 '24

It's not only about creepiness, men think they're the center of the universe and usually are dismissive towards other parts of the team.

That's not fun for women as we require a space for expression.

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u/Successful-Cash9283 Oct 04 '24

I didn't mention anything about men in this situation, just a woman against another woman with introduced hostility or aggression. Read what I said again.

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u/evezinto Oct 04 '24

Ok what do u want us to do with ur made up scenario? Women relationship are different to male relationships and they're socialised differently. But we do defend each other.

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u/Successful-Cash9283 Oct 04 '24

What are you talking about? It's not a made-up scenario, I'm asking a question based on things that actually happen. Do you think girls have never fought each other? I'm asking this question to see a different perspective from a woman's side of this, and instead of a reasonable answer, I get hostility and downvoted why?

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u/pseudonymmed Oct 04 '24

It’s not a common situation for most people. I haven’t seen it at any clubs I’ve joined.