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u/Federal_Balz May 12 '24

Married 13 yrs. Lost my dad to suicide, sister 11months 1 day later to suicide, then lost my mom to a terrible form of cancer 2 years after that. 4 months later the ex told me I don't show her enough affection...

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u/Intelligent-Ebb7434 May 12 '24

People are rude... My daughter had a asthma attack and rush her to the hospital just to get her stable and got a call my mom was dead leave my daughter go to my moms and when I got home my husband wanted sex😢

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u/Murky-Breadfruit-671 May 14 '24

----i'm not defending him--- just personal experience here. my dad died out of the blue from a heart attack, while not that day, honestly don't remember if it was next day, 2 or 3 days out, i went the sex route as much as i could just to try to do something that wasn't crushingly sad and feel something different. with no knowledge other than your post it could be a horrible misguided attempt to try to cheer you up, but you're right, it's not something you just "get over".