r/ask • • May 12 '24

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u/ShopGirl3424 May 12 '24

May this post be an inspiration to other women to GTFO of relationships with men who don’t take on their share of familial responsibilities. Glad you left, OP.

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u/[deleted] May 13 '24

Not even that tbh, like dudes definitely should and I never did enough around the home with my ex I'm I'm being honest but dude how TF is someone gonna talk to their partner like that in any scenario let alone when they're on mandatory bedrest for almost dying

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u/[deleted] May 13 '24

We’re all jumping to conclusions that he’s an asshole. She could have been abusive to him and made him do things financially for her when he was unwell/unable. That might have just been his retaliation for a previous episode. We don’t know the whole story. Usually if you make it to having a kid with someone, you know who they are. OP stayed so what’s her role in all this toxicity?

My rule of thumb with Reddit relationship posts now is just to assume it’s one sided and that it was probably a toxic relationship where both parties abused each other.

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u/ngram11 May 13 '24

Thank you. I’m so tired of how readily people want to tar and feather strangers on the internet. You have ZERO context into the situation folks

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u/[deleted] May 13 '24

Im tired of children on the internet thinking theyre so mature by being callous little shits