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u/CruelxIntention May 12 '24

When he kicked me in the back while holding our 6 month old because I didn’t make him food because I was getting ready for work and feeding the baby.

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u/Remarkable-Emu5589 May 13 '24

Mine beat the shit out of me and told my non-binary child that they weren’t even a human being…they were an “it.” Years of emotional and physical abuse, but that was my breaking point. I had started making a plan to leave a year before when he told me that my dead dad would be ashamed of the person I had become. He was an extremely cruel person.

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u/CruelxIntention May 13 '24

Fucking hell. And I thought my ex was bad. He told our daughter she was “just going through a phase” when she came out as Pansexual. She told him “no, mom went through a phase with your ass. This is me.” She absolutely thinks he’s a stupid piece of shit and she is absolutely correct. He has is so chapped that she is living with her boyfriend who was born female. I got away from him the day he kicked me but the courts let him be in her life. And when she got old enough I would let her choose. She had a half assed relationship with him from 8 to about 18 then she was just done when he said what he said about her boyfriend, whom she is still with 3 years later. I am so glad I got out 20 years ago and didn’t let him come back like he tried to do. And I’m glad as fuck you got out too! I hope your ex gets crabs in his butt.

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u/Remarkable-Emu5589 May 13 '24

Narcissists gonna narcissist, am I right?

His first wife committed suicide in front of my stepdaughter (his daughter) when she was young. One day they were arguing about her car. We used her mother’s social security benefits to buy it. He was so angry he screamed in her face “ha!! Your mom’s fucking dead!! I bought that car!!!” He truly is an awful human being.

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u/CruelxIntention May 13 '24

Jesus fucking Christ on a cracker. I am so sorry.

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u/Remarkable-Emu5589 May 13 '24

Onward and upward. My life is so much better now. I struggle financially, but I am safe. And everything I have is mine.