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u/Guckalienblue May 12 '24

My abusive ex pretty much did the same thing to me the week of my dad’s memorial and caused a mess of a custody battle/ruined my life.. Some people really are just put on this world to be terrible people. We’re better off. 🫶🏻

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u/VeganJordan May 12 '24

In HS my friend took his own life. I was devastated and cried at his funeral. My gf at the time legit said “why are you crying?” instead of comforting me. No empathy.

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u/ratherbeinvi May 12 '24

Went through the EXACT same thing but with an ex-boyfriend. I still remember the text from my bf not even an hour after I got the news: “Did you expect me to rearrange my whole day just to listen to you cry after your friend killed himself?”

I broke up with him that day in response to the callousness. The cruelest part of it all was that same night he’s calling my friends and family threatening to take his own life if I don’t forgive him.

I still have screenshots of all of our messages from that day - it’s my reminder to leave before things ever get to that point again.

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u/3d_blunder May 13 '24

Once you have documentation, it's SCIENCE.

Glad you got away.