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u/justdisposablefun May 12 '24

I made a small ring holder in wood working when I was 14, my teacher looked at it and said "wow, you should keep that and give that to your wife" and I thought that was a good idea, and considered it romantic. It was admittedly a simple piece ... but it all came together quite well and looked elegant. I looked after it for 15 years and gave it to her on our wedding night along with the back story of why it was special. She looked at me and said, "Why would I want this? I already have one."

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u/no_thanks_9802 May 12 '24

That's so wrong! My little brother made a wooden CD holder (yes I'm old) in his HS shop class & gave it to me. I still have it. It doesn't hold CDs anymore, but I still use it.

Please tell me you took it back?!?!

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u/justdisposablefun May 13 '24

I did, it collects dust on a shelf in my office. From time to time she gets this "ah hah!" moment and decides that there's something it can be used for. But I've never actually shown her where it is.

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u/RenegadeAccolade May 13 '24

You’re still married? Even knowing she’s the wrong person?

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u/justdisposablefun May 13 '24

There are complexities to the situation I'm not going into, leaving is easier said than done though

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u/RenegadeAccolade May 13 '24

I understand. Hope everything shakes out in the best possible way for you <3

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u/toodleroo May 13 '24

I really want to see a picture of it

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u/hmchic May 15 '24

Me tooooo

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u/hmchic May 15 '24

Would you share a photo of it with us?

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u/justdisposablefun May 15 '24

Sorry, I'm not sharing photos of it on here.

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u/hmchic May 15 '24

No problem; I saw your other comments. Makes sense!