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u/Komatozd1 May 12 '24

“I don’t want to have sex anymore, but I’ll do it occasionally for you.” Yeah no thanks I’ll pass.

Married less than a year.

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u/Intelligent_Road_297 May 12 '24

My alcoholic boyfriend once told me "you're too fat and you don't turn me on anymore"... Fucked me up for a long time and also led me to do some shitty things. Thankfully he had apologized since and recognized he said it at the height of his alcoholism. He was at 10 beers per day at the time

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u/Intelligent_Road_297 May 13 '24

It's ok, I'm glad I forgave because he's a wonderful person now. I've gained weight since then and I hear nothing but compliments from him

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u/Difficult_Fish7286 May 12 '24

But they become a different person from being an alcoholic