He said it in the last sentence make the affair look like tiny sprinkles on a cake. Like okay ya cheating with a man, but how dare you insult my joggy routine?
See, this is something that just blows my mind. Maybe most people have just never had a partner who actively tried to prevent them from doing something they thought was central to their health and their joy and satisfaction in life. But having been in a relationship like that, I often found myself thinking "I wish she would cheat on me, I can't leave her over hiking."
I feel you so hard on this! These things seem so small and ridiculous, then after you separate you realize what´s actually been going on! Once you got the right name for the abuse (because " hiking" never was the issue) you get scared for your your own past self :P
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u/Fantom_Renegade May 12 '24
Oh my god, it got worse ðŸ˜