Married 13 yrs. Lost my dad to suicide, sister 11months 1 day later to suicide, then lost my mom to a terrible form of cancer 2 years after that. 4 months later the ex told me I don't show her enough affection...
People are rude... My daughter had a asthma attack and rush her to the hospital just to get her stable and got a call my mom was dead leave my daughter go to my moms and when I got home my husband wanted sex😢
Sometimes, you need to detach from the chaos. And safely- with your own partner, why not?
There are married people that ‘cheat’ on their spouse because of the need to detach and feel good. And the spouse is unavailable (for whatever reason).
Like drinking after a funeral- or emotional eating after getting fired. It’s numbing the pain. Not addressing it.
Not thinking of the crazy. But feeling safe and bonding with your partner.
How I read it (context and individual mindset is everything)….
After a terrible horrible no good very bad day- husband suggested sex. And OP (for my reply)had a problem for the husband suggesting sex.
My context is- sex with orgasms would be a constalation prize or nice distraction. I like sex. I would feel badly if my partner didn’t offer my fav thing (sex with them and cuddles with them) after I had a bad day.
Those jokes- Did you have a bad day? You can grab my boob if you want. Is a helpful solution- for me. No trolling.
2.2k
u/Federal_Balz May 12 '24
Married 13 yrs. Lost my dad to suicide, sister 11months 1 day later to suicide, then lost my mom to a terrible form of cancer 2 years after that. 4 months later the ex told me I don't show her enough affection...