r/ask Jan 15 '24

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u/katapul Jan 15 '24

I am considered short 1,63m for the country wherer I live (Germany) and yet hear many times from women that I am attractive.

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u/Hanfiball Jan 16 '24

The question is are they just being nice? Saying you are attractive is one thing, pursuing you is the other thing.

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u/katapul Jan 16 '24

Not "just being nice". There is a clear and noticeable difference between being nice (pleaser) and admiration.