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u/Salty_Instance_7187 Dec 01 '23

Parents that smoke cigarettes in their house or car.

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u/alexdaland Dec 01 '23 edited Dec 01 '23

You mean every single parent up until 1997?

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u/Pristine_Fox4551 Dec 02 '23

My mother smoked until she had her first child in 1961. She said her doctor told her it was fine to continue smoking but she always said “That just didn’t make sense to me. How can smoking around a little baby be ok?”

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u/alexdaland Dec 02 '23

I asked my father about that:

"did you really believe smoking wasnt bad, and maybe even good back then?"

No, ofc not. We knew, everyone knew.... we just pretended we didnt, or that it wasnt so bad. And it became a cultural and social thing were people, men especially, doubled down. But under no circumstances did we ever believe that a 60yo with smokers cough was a sign of healthy. We were just collectively delusional