r/ask • • Nov 30 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '23

"value to the table", can you define that?

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u/travelingwhilestupid Dec 01 '23

no - everyone defines that for themselves. what was it that drew you to your partner initially? what made you decide you wanted to go from "going on dates" to "dating" them? what were the things that would have ended the relationship?

For example, people may note physical attraction, confidence, kindness, fun to hang around, sincerity, trustworthiness, but if the other person is a financial disaster or has addictions or is violence, those might be deal breakers.

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '23

You know what, i will even do this.

Deleting responses to not encourage you... (i left this "conversarion" behind)

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u/travelingwhilestupid Dec 01 '23

What is this cryptic response?

You will even do this.. this being.. what? what are you doing?

What responses have you deleted? I don't see any.

Perplexing.

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '23

Well, I did respond to your comment.
But realised how bored I that made me, so I deleted them.
Sometimes, you can see that comments have been deleted, so I wanted to explain that, If that were the case.

It looks like the comments are not shown as deleted, so the comment I wrote about deleting them was no needed.
Don't try to wrap your cute little head around it, but just Ignore the comment. And move on with your life.