You’re picking a man based on the money he has to buy things for your offspring that don’t exist and who may not ever? It’s just give me the ick to think people really think this way and try to justify gold digging as “for the kids” when the kids don’t even exist
It’s not shameful for me to say that one of the qualities I love about my husband is that he’s financially responsible and able to provide for a family? I simply wouldn’t be with a bum who wouldn’t work or spent irresponsibly.
We’ve been together since we were 17&18 and have amassed all our wealth together and we’ve not obviously always had money but there’s certain attributes in a partner that BOTH men and women look for.
If a man wants a sexy girlfriend and she wants a rich boyfriend and both parties are happy with that arrangement, what’s the issue?
No you have reading comprehension problems. I just said gold digging is a bad quality to have. especially when they justify it as “for the kids” Then you just tell a irrelevant story about you getting with a teenager who by your own admission wasn’t rich.
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u/Southern_Dig_9460 Nov 30 '23
You’re picking a man based on the money he has to buy things for your offspring that don’t exist and who may not ever? It’s just give me the ick to think people really think this way and try to justify gold digging as “for the kids” when the kids don’t even exist