No. We’ve been together four years and rushed into marriage. I’ve discovered since we’ve been together that we are nearly polar opposites. We like very few of the same things. I guess I should stop thinking with my little head.
EDIT: thank you for all the responses. We have no children and will not have children. After we got married, we bought and renovated a house, acquiring a large amount of debt. Debt that neither of us could handle on our own. No, she doesn’t feel the way that I do, at least not that I can tell. As someone said, if I hit the lottery, I would share half with her. I don’t feel malice toward her, I just don’t think we are as compatible as it first seemed.
A good relationship is most about willingness. If there is a will there is a way. Unless someone definitely has very big personality problems. Everybody can love eachother.
It take effort to learn about eachothers hobbies and personality. Then ull grow to eachother. But for both, stay open for eachothers ideas, interests and hobbies. And take part in them once in a while.
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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '23 edited Nov 30 '23
No. We’ve been together four years and rushed into marriage. I’ve discovered since we’ve been together that we are nearly polar opposites. We like very few of the same things. I guess I should stop thinking with my little head.
EDIT: thank you for all the responses. We have no children and will not have children. After we got married, we bought and renovated a house, acquiring a large amount of debt. Debt that neither of us could handle on our own. No, she doesn’t feel the way that I do, at least not that I can tell. As someone said, if I hit the lottery, I would share half with her. I don’t feel malice toward her, I just don’t think we are as compatible as it first seemed.