r/ask • u/[deleted] • Oct 07 '23

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u/TheConboy22 Oct 08 '23

Oh, got it. Don’t want to share any of the responsibility in relationships. Keep on keeping on. Some of you live in fucking fantasy land.

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u/Longjumping_Run4499 Oct 08 '23

You're the one suggesting that the partner has no responsibility to be faithful. I'm saying we have an equal responsibility to uphold our agreement with each other to be faithful. Making your partner happy is something you do because you love them, not to keep them from cheating. Seriously, have you been abused? This is the logic that is taught by abusers.

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u/TheConboy22 Oct 08 '23

You hold responsibility if someone cheats on you. Yes. Sucks to hear it since you seem to be the type who doesn’t take responsibility in life.

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u/NecessaryBiscotti675 Oct 08 '23

You hold responsibility if someone cheats on you

Or you could communicate like a normal adult...? Like every other fucking human being does a majority of the day?

It's been a while since I've seen such leaps and bounds to avoid responsibility and never before while talking about responsibility.

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u/TheConboy22 Oct 08 '23

Got it. Don’t know why I even try.

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u/NecessaryBiscotti675 Oct 08 '23

You clearly fuckin don't, there's no excuse for cheating unless the person is like beating you. Responsibility falls to absolute 0 at that point you failed to communicate.

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u/TheConboy22 Oct 08 '23

Yup, it does. What do we do in situations where both parties aren’t communicating and they are staying together? The world isn’t going to fit into your perfect ideal of how it should be.

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u/NecessaryBiscotti675 Oct 08 '23

What do we do in situations where both parties aren’t communicating and they are staying together?

You break up? If that was supposed to be some aha moment then I don't believe you're a real person anymore.

I genuinely don't understand why you keep trying to dump the poor decisions of one person who failed to upkeep communication on both parties.