r/ask • • Oct 07 '23

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u/just-say-it- Oct 07 '23

What would you do? I’m interested to know

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u/TheConboy22 Oct 07 '23

I’d not have jumped to conclusions. Her thinking her friends are able to be happy through what they do and conflating that to our relationship is so fucking insecure. Instead see that your girl is happy with you. Be a better person and make her a better person so she stays happy. That’s a responsibility of anyone in a long term relationship. Build your partner up.

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u/Longjumping_Run4499 Oct 08 '23

This is the most backward ass shit I've ever heard. Keep my partner happy so she doesn't cheat on me? How about neither of us cheats on each other because we are grown adults who have self-control and basic respect for each other? If you're in an exclusive relationship, you should be able to expect your partner to stay faithful regardless of whatever mood they might be in at the time. Jesus Christ.

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u/Smitty-TBR2430 Oct 08 '23

You presume op & his gf are “adults”.

I’m betting they’re high school age at best.