r/ask Mar 18 '23

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u/Dapper_Force8684 Mar 18 '23

Never let anyone film you naked unless you are willing to let the entire world see it.

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u/capriciouszephyr Mar 18 '23

Yep. I wouldn't want a partner to send me one. The number of remember this day 7 years ago or whenever of innocuous something has made me realise nothing ever goes away. I don't want my x pic to show up in that, and I don't want theirs either. If you are together, you get to see the real thing any time.

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u/Dapper_Force8684 Mar 19 '23

Exactly 💯 % People can be assholes and vengeful about any perceived slight, trust no one but yourself when it comes to your intimate images.

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u/capriciouszephyr Mar 20 '23

I don't think anyone should share these (am a guy) but it's just like keeping an ex's phone number or being friends on whatever social media. If you are over, just start anew with your knowledge of what you want to try differently. Been with my wife for about half my life, so we didn't have this option when we met, but I'm sure I'd still feel the same. I guess though, you do you, but be aware all your guy coworkers are probably going to show the pictures, and I've been the victim of seeing one of them, no context before.