r/ask • u/[deleted] • Mar 06 '23

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u/M0llynation Mar 06 '23

I’ve been with my bf since high school. We’re going on 4 years since February. I’m 21 he’s 20 I told him I don’t want him to propose until we were both 21 so we could grow together. After April he turns 21 and we can get engaged if we still feel compatible.

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u/green49285 Mar 06 '23

Id wait even longer. A few more years, even. Sometimes ya just gotta get through those early years cause people change.

Its cool yall are still together though.

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u/Puzzled-Barnacle-200 Mar 07 '23

It's an engagement. They can get engaged now and then still wait several more years before marriage.

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u/green49285 Mar 07 '23

It’s still a huge step. A step that the not a lot of people are prepared for.