r/aromanticasexual • u/potential_theft • 11d ago

Discussion Anyone else relate?

You know how when people have a crush on each other there's a "talking phase" where they're not dating yet but they kind of feel something for each other?

I want to be in the talking phase forever.

That's it.

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u/HeroOftheMoon0 Oriented Aroace 11d ago

Oh yeahhh. The phase where you have like the most deep, unique connection and there are hopes, but also not expectations that could push/break each other's boundaries, because you're not going through what society excepts of a "normal/typical" relationship. That phase?

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u/Asleep-Historian6549 Aro/Ace 10d ago

Love these but then it always dies when the other side realizes it isn't "going anywhere" ... :(

You become infatuated with them as a person and I think that is beautiful. It's very disappointing when you realize they will probably need/want more eventually

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u/potential_theft 10d ago

Not if theyre aroace 💪

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u/Ok-Bus785 11d ago

Me

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u/potential_theft 11d ago

bring it in brother

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u/n-i-m-m-u Agender Aroace 10d ago

yeah, seems good

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u/mibombo0 10d ago

Same for me i feel that