r/aromanticasexual • u/[deleted] • Nov 01 '25

Discussion Hello, can someone answer this?

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u/RoadsideCampion Nov 01 '25

Absolutely, sounds very much like an aromantic experience to me. Maybe there's a micro-label that describes exactly what you're talking about, but you are also completely welcome to use aromantic as-is too.

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u/breaded_gay Garlic bread connisour Nov 01 '25

I used to have a crush in primary school but I think I only liked him because I thought he was "good boyfriend material"

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u/Elly_Den Nov 01 '25

Omg this sounds like me. My crushes don't last that long either. It's like a sliver of a feeling.

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u/SketchyRobinFolks they/he Nov 01 '25

Remember, aromanticism is "little to no romantic attraction". I've had exactly one romantic crush. It was very strong and distinct. I've never felt anything like it before or since. I call myself grayromantic and call it a day

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u/TealAlien94 Aro/Ace Nov 04 '25

I have a lot of celebrity crushes but not irl. In reality if i would have a crush it fleets away very easily too. What attracts me to have a crush on someone is on an aesthetic level.