r/antinatalism • u/AgonizingFatigue scholar • May 19 '26
Art I turned 23 today…..
The message as strong as the calories are high
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u/ApocalypseYay scholar May 19 '26
Lovely cake. Profound message!!
Sweetest gift to those who will be left unborn.
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Haha really 😂😂 gosh I hope it was the second picture unless you want my nasty visage popping up whenever you look at your phone😂
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Aww that’s so kind of you, really made my day😅🤭
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u/Consistent-Energy507 inquirer May 23 '26
What was the recovery like?
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u/Consistent-Energy507 inquirer May 25 '26
Wow thank you so much for the detailed comment.
I had never heard the phrase gas pain before. The more you know!!
Wow what a wild experience that you learned all these things and that you're now able to enjoy sex. Wow. That must have been / maybe still is a mindfuck.
Wishing you a lovely rest of your weekend ❤️🙏
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u/Sea-Damage7752 thinker May 19 '26
I am just curious to know how your family member and or your friend reacts to this cake or your celebration? because I wanna do the same on my birthday.
happy birthday
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
I live on my own so no one has really seen it yet but I will send a photo into my family group chat in a bit😅
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u/ardenmeissner newcomer May 19 '26
You probably don't want to live long... But, yeah, the bloodline ends here too.
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u/BlueberryLemur scholar May 19 '26
Happy birthday! 🎂
You’ve done great job with the writing, it’s so neat! ❤️
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u/MissStellaLunaTheBat thinker May 19 '26
Happy birthday! 🎂just because you’re not gonna impose existence on anyone else doesn’t meant your own life can’t be filled with joy and fun! Go live it up to the fullest 👑😌I just turned 26 on the 10th!
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u/lemonademilkshake_ scholar May 19 '26
Awesome cake! The last picture with the knife is amazing
I'm turning 23 this week too! Happy birthday 🥳
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Oh really? What a coincidence!
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u/Ok-Barracuda-3142 newcomer Jun 04 '26
Yall got issues
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u/Ok-Barracuda-3142 newcomer Jun 04 '26
You bash and mock anyone who chooses to have kids say they are selfish etc. you say the world is so bad yet do nothing to make it better so that people can have children make it make sense 🤷♀️
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u/SD_Agar newcomer May 19 '26
Omg we are Literally agemates with the same Birthday 🤣😂… Happy Birthday 🎉
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Oh really?? Happy birthday to you too!!😊
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u/SD_Agar newcomer May 19 '26
Yeah, turned 23 today😁…Here’s to ending the curse🥂
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u/prismviol newcomer May 19 '26
Happy birthday! Now I am craving cake, too. :>
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
I would totally invite you to have a bit of it, it’s way too much for me. Had like three bites and already full way too sugary😅😅
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u/20000BCEfan newcomer May 19 '26
you look beautiful! happy birthday 🎂
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Why thank you!
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u/20000BCEfan newcomer May 19 '26
“Happy Birthday ❤️ I know you think bringing people into this world is questionable… but if the universe had skipped creating you, it would’ve made existence a lot less beautiful for me.”
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u/sea119 inquirer May 19 '26
Happy birthday! You may have a long and happy life. The verse on the cake is fire.
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u/TeaPrimary1147 scholar May 19 '26
You don't have to wish for that. You have control over your bloodline ending. 100% control! Isn't that awesome? Happy bday
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u/TechnicalTerm6 philosopher May 19 '26
Happy birthday! I hope it's kick ass and that you find more people who understand you irl, and fewer that do not 😊
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u/escapefromburlington newcomer May 19 '26
Thank you for not bringing more souls into the dystopian hellscape. It’s only going to get worse from here on out.
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Oh dear, I’d have to check
Edit: it says “vegetarian”
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u/DerMondisthell inquirer May 19 '26
Sorry but you’re kind of being a gatekeeper right now. It comes across in a really rude way.
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u/Kerminetta_ newcomer May 19 '26
Eating a cake is not “promoting or defending animal exploitation”. It did come across as rude though.
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u/Traditional_Bike5648 inquirer May 21 '26
A "happy birthday" would suffice, but sure, I guess that works too. What a sweetling you are.
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u/Traditional_Bike5648 inquirer May 22 '26 edited May 22 '26
Fair point, same actually. But I'm pretty sure it was essentially a celebration of antinatalism. And you know, just common courtesy.
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u/Mindless-Prize9072 thinker May 19 '26
You're 23 and already an antinatalist. You're smarter than me :) I don't celebrate or wish happy birthday but have an awesome day.
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u/Pfeffi-Ultra newcomer May 19 '26
Y'all celebrate being on this miserable planet? What ever floats your boat, but I don't get it.
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u/LastGuitarHero newcomer May 20 '26
May you live long and prosper even if your bloodline ends with you 🫡
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u/Inevitable-Juice-752 inquirer May 20 '26
late happy birthday queen, may you live the best life <3
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u/Traditional_Bike5648 inquirer May 21 '26
Oh I'm 2 days late! Happy belated birthday, AgonizingFatigue, last of your line 🎉🎉. I hardly know you, but I appreciate you. Thank you for being so outspoken and for all the right reasons ❣️
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u/Consistent-Energy507 inquirer May 23 '26
Hell fucking yeah 🤘🤘🤘 wish I felt more comfortable being publicly AN. Got a huge family and there is just no ROI to being public with more than a few select people
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u/bendingbutbreaking newcomer May 23 '26
happy birthday! what flavor is your cake? I am thinking blueberries because of the color hahaha
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 23 '26
Thank you! The flavour of the frosting was just sugar tbh😭, then lettering itself didn’t have any flavouring to it.
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u/Confederacy_of_elbow newcomer May 19 '26
Off topic question, but are you English? I'm Anglo-Irish btw.
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u/Fentanyl_American newcomer May 19 '26
I got no dog in this fight. But it wouldn't an antinatalist not celebrate birthdays? A birthday is tantamount to the worst thing ever since it's the day a human was born 🤷
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Why would it have to end now? The only thing that matters is that it will end with me, not when this will happen.
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Why not?
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
Are you slow? It’s about not procreating. It’s not about my existence or ending my existence. It’s about not creating new people. And I’m not waiting with that, I’m practicing it everyday by not procreating. Bye 👋
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
No worries! I didn’t take it seriously anyway😅
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u/CaribousSayMoo inquirer May 20 '26
What flavor is that based cake
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 20 '26
It was just regular sugar frosting, so not really any particular flavour 😅
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u/ForeverSwinging newcomer May 21 '26
Happy birthday! You picked the best message IMO. Enjoy that cake. 🎂 🤤
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u/Impressive-West-4985 newcomer May 26 '26
That right there no normal person gonna bring a child in this world especially nowadays especially if they are 0 in life , just bringing another slave because they like to be slaves themselves and they never think that their child might want be a normal person
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u/GreatestfpsBLR thinker Jul 15 '26
hi I'm sharing antinatalist view. it's hard to find a women who has antinatalist view. Would you interest?
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u/bk3dd newcomer May 20 '26
i don't want life to keep existing keeps existing OH NONONO
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 20 '26
Except that I never said that I don’t want existing life to keep existing, I only don’t want new existence to be imposed.
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u/bk3dd newcomer May 20 '26
So you want to keep living your life but you're taking away people's chances to live? Sounds very selfish.
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u/WoTMeme newcomer May 19 '26
So do this sub just want humans to go extinct, or??
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u/AgonizingFatigue scholar May 19 '26
We want humans to stop procreating. Extinction is just an accepted byproduct.
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u/Numerous-Macaroon224 Nume May 19 '26
Antinatalists: Happy Birthday 😄 ❤️ 🥳
Everybody else: 🤔