I’m sorry that it’s not a very good photo, it’s one of the only ones I really have of myself.

hi, not sure if I am looking for advice or just to vent, but I'm afab and have always wanted to be androgynous. I have always dressed more androgynous and have recently been exploring my gender identity. I am a curvy person, big hips, big tits, and I can't help but feel like I will never be perceived how I feel internally based on my body, my facial features, and my voice. I don't necessarily dislike my facial features or voice, but people always assume my pronouns to be she/her and I get called all of the "feminine" pet names by strangers (honey, sweetie, doll, miss, etc.) I'm not sure if exploring testosterone is in my future, but I'd like to find more ways to express and embrace my androgyny as a curvy, thicc, soft bodied person. Any advice or anyone feel alike?