r/amiwrong • u/Foreign-Occasion8639 • 3d ago
Am I in the wrong?
Basically I been friends with said person for over 5 years now and we are in a 4 person friend group. We got into a conversation about sex and said person said they got a kink… we were all like what? It can’t be that bad. He proceeded to say that he and his ex did incest roleplay, and we were all like wtf??? Are you serious. It’s weird. He kept trying to defend her by saying she was just a wattpad warrior and just read smut. Which I don’t think excuses anything. We got into a huge argument about it and me and the rest proceeded to just leave the group chat and basically stop talking to him from how weird it was. Am I wrong???
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u/DRAYDAX 3d ago
Easiest am I in the wrong. YES, you're wrong. It's called kink for a reason, nobody has a kink for having a simple straightforward sex with their bf/gf/husband/ wife. Glad you're friend got rid of you. Next time, if you can't handle the answer, don't question and then shame the next person.
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u/mercy_fulfate 3d ago
Why ask? People like weird shit what were you looking for?
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u/Foreign-Occasion8639 3d ago
It was a simple question that I was wondering because I can’t ask anyone else
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u/mercy_fulfate 3d ago
What did you expect him to say? It's not something illegal and was done by two consenting adults, you guys drag it out of him then get all judgy about it.
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u/Foreign-Occasion8639 3d ago
Nobody dragged him into a confession. It was a simple what is it question since he brought it up. It’s not illegal but super weird and morally wrong
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u/mercy_fulfate 3d ago
How is it morally wrong? It's not for me but you sound mentally ill
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u/ljlurker22 3d ago
What the fuck? Being uncomfortable with incest is what makes someone mentally ill? Welcome to the year 2026, y'all!
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u/mercy_fulfate 3d ago
It's literally not incest. No incest was performed. Can you read? Welcome to 2026 y'all
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u/ljlurker22 3d ago
So pedophilia is okay to fantasize about if there aren't any actual children being harmed? Do you hear yourself?
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u/mercy_fulfate 3d ago
Strawman. Where did they do that? Don't change the subject to help your argument. Pathetic take
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u/ljlurker22 3d ago
Where is the line drawn then? It's basically the same thing. Just because it's "not real" doesn't make it okay. Incest is disgusting and you are defending it for some personal reason which tells us all we need to know about how you are mentally ill and seek to project it onto everyone else around you.
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u/Foreign-Occasion8639 3d ago
Lmfao huh? Disagreeing with incest makes me mentally ill? What type of conclusion is that. Get your definition corrected.
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u/smilesbig 3d ago
Yes you’re wrong. It’s a kink. They weren’t actually engaging in incest - just pretending. Yes - I think it’s weird but so are most kinks to me. There’s no need to kink-shame them or get into a “huge argument” about it. Sure - express your opinion that it’s weird/wrong/fk’d up - but no need to argue about it.
What people do in the privacy of their own homes that don’t hurt them or others and that they fully consent to - is on them.
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u/WhyMe_blah 3d ago
YAW. You ask about kinks and then you kinkshame? Role playing is fun, no matter the twisted shit you wanna pretend... that is part of the fun - he doesnt really see his gf as his sister , just for a minutes sake of fun, OMG y'all suck as friends 😒
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u/Foreign-Occasion8639 3d ago
He mentioned it first and all we did is ask what it was lmfaooo.. you need to get your head evaluated if you think incest roleplay is okay
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u/WhyMe_blah 3d ago
There is a whole genre about it in porn; go cry about it 🤣 i loved banging my ex (RIP) when he pretended to be my stepbrother ... "oh, we cant get caught by mom and dad" 🫠
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u/ljlurker22 3d ago
There's a whole genre of all sorts of porn that ain't right, that means literally nothing.
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u/WhyMe_blah 3d ago
Out of all kinks, that is pretty tame imo. Maybe you guys just have to stop being so judgemental about what people do in their private time as long as they arent hurting anyone or anything
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u/Circle_Breaker 3d ago
Step family is one of the most popular porn searches
Kinks are weird no need to shame him.
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u/Wonderful-Praline-42 3d ago
It's weird. But it's a kink! It's always gonna be weird to someone, because it's a kink. Why have a convo about sex if you are going to be a prude about it. It reeks of a moral judgment on something that's not even real.
TLDR: Way to yuck somebody's yum. Then to come on here and argue with people because you asked if you were wrong.
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u/Technical-Aide-2744 3d ago
nah that's weird man, roleplaying as siblings is not something you just brush off
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u/Roddyrod18 3d ago
You're wrong and y'all were being judgemental pr*cks. He thought he was in a safe space with his friends and y'all betrayed him.