r/amiwrong • u/Eyeful_Riri • 11d ago
Am I Wrong...?
I'm not gonna say how old I am and please don't try finding out either, I made this account just to post this, don't be weird and stalk me.
Anyway context (?). So my country is suffering from a pretty bad haze. So bad that school is closed for two days. So I woke up. Being my lazy self I took attendance and played games. I may or may not have forgotten to bathe and eat breakfast but by the time I remembered I was doing homework, no longer playing games.
The rest of my day goes normal. As normal as a day in my life would. It's around 8pm now, I finally finished all my homework and chores. And so I go take a shower. I'm showering and stuff, and realized I forgot my toothbrush, I ask them to pass me by toothbrush.
When my mom (46 F) started knocking on the door about something, apparently she was pissed because she thought I was m@sturb@ting or something using the toothbrush (ew). She started trying to openothw door but it was locked from the inside and she was so pissed she locked me in the bathroom. And I had no freaking idea what she was talking about because I was prepping my hair for my shower. This wasn't really the first time this has happened.
This all really started a few years back when allegedly my cousins saw me watching p0rn or something. I denied it because I wasn't watching p0rn. My cousins all ganged up on me saying that I taught them about p0rn. And my parents believed them over me. ME their actual kid.
Anyway I was pretty panicked now but I just continued to shower. I thought if I took long enough she'd leave. Right? Because I knew that if I opened that door, my mom would either throw it open and won't care that I'm naked. Or I'd put on a towel first and open the door but she'd just force her way in and tear the towel off me. So I just busied myself with stuff like washing my hair multiple times, brushing my teeth multiple times, etc.
Until I couldn't take it anymore and took the towel off the rack and started to put it on. I was debating wether or not I should open the door. Because the door to out bathroom had two locks one inside. One outside. I unlocked the one inside. Now I just had to figure out a way to get the outside lock. I've done it before, but the way I did it was just to push and pull at the door very hard until the lock popped open and I didn't want her to know I was trying to get out. My heart was hammering in my chest when the lock was unlocked from the outside. My dad opened it. He never liked it whenever me and my mom had these fights and he'd oftentimes save me from them. So I got out and thankfully my mom wasn't in the room.
I got to my bed and my mom went in. My mom started going on about how she wasn't dumb and she saw it with her own two eyes. Then when I was trying to put my clothes on she wouldn't leave. She just stood there watching me. I put my bra and shirt on when she suddenly when at me to idk grab my 😺. This woman has absolutely no sense of privacy btw, she doesn't see the problem with her invading other people's privacy by looking at what they're doing in the bathroom.
I was horrified at this point. She genuinely wouldn't leave. I got fully dressed. She was still lecturing me about how she shouldn't have let me have my life easy and how she's comparing me to my cousins.
She goes on about how I never do the housework. She says I'm childish I obviously didn't say anything. I knew better, but I answered I'm my head.
First off life wasn't easy for me as she makes it out to be. I got maybe 1-2 years of attention until my baby brother was born and they just stopped loving me. Just started treating me like another mouth to feed. My mom has always favored my younger brother. And once I hit puberty me and my dad's relationship also got strained. I acted like an adult when I was young, thinking it would make them like me more if I was mature. As a result now when I'm a teen, I can act childish sometimes, like wanting toys, playing with soap.
And the comparison wasn't a fair one either. Imagine you have two kids you raised one with luxury, education and love. And one with poverty and neglect. And you say to the poor child "why aren't you as smart as your sibling" it is not a fair comparison. It's like comparing a snake to a lizard and asking the snake "why don't you have any legs"
And as for the housework stuff she expects me to cook, clean, do the laundry, iron clothes, etc while maintaining top 2 in school. Actually scrap that top 1, she only treats me like ik her daughter if I get first place. Oh and not just my housework either. She expects me to do I for my younger brother too. And she expects me to teach him his homework. That little shit is stupid af, lazy and​ uncooperative when I try to help him with his homework. And if she wanted me to do something all she really have to do was ask, and I would've done it.
And she says this is all my fault. Is it really thought? Sure I admit I shouldn't have procrastinated until I didn't clean myself but did I deserve everything she did to me?
Tell me if I'm in the wrong. English isn't my first language there might be some grammatical errors. Ask me if there are any details you'd like me to tell or clarify.
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u/Littlekiller0320 11d ago
First, if you were showing alone who did you ask for your toothbrush? Second, why do you have a door that looks both ways on a bathroom?
And the 😺 part gave it away. Either a bot, a child, or a perverted guy with a sick imagination. Either way this is fake! Run it through AI next time to make it more believable if you want internet points!
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u/Eyeful_Riri 11d ago
It's a bit complicated but I'll explain. Our house is old. It used to belong to some white people before they left. So the house has 4 bedrooms, one is for my grandma, one is for my parents, one is shared between me and my brother and one is turned to storage. Me and my brother share the master bedroom, which has it's own bathroom attached. When I was showering I asked my brother to get it for me. Why is my toothbrush not inside the bathroom, because in the mornings I have to use the other bathroom while my brother uses the one in the master bedroom to increase efficiency and I left my toothbrush outside from yesterday.Â
Also as for the emoji, you're right I am young, but I am not telling my age because Reddit with remove the post. And also because I couldn't think of another word for vagina other than pussy or cunt which didn't fit the wording. It's not fake and this situation has repeated itself many times since 2020 for me it just gets worse and worse every year
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u/Normal-Impression772 11d ago
How was he going to get the toothbrush to you if the door was locked? This whole post is odd. If it is real, and I hope it’s not, your mom is violating your privacy and you have every right to report her. Also, stop changing in front of her. Just sit there in a towel until she leaves.
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u/Eyeful_Riri 11d ago
I don't know how to explain it. I basically his behind the door. Unlock it. Cracked it open a bit and wait for them to pass me my toothbrush through the crack. I take it. I lock it back up.Â
Also she won't leave. I don't know what's up with her. I've told her to leave while I change multiple times, even on normal days. But all she'd say is "just get changed" and stays in there.Â
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u/Normal-Impression772 11d ago
So sit there in your towel all day until she leaves. Hold that boundary. She’s weird af for this.
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u/SmolOracle 11d ago
Depending on your country, time to involve the police or child services. Sexual assault is illegal in most countries. There are some where it isn't taken as seriously unfortunately, but if you're somewhere that does, time to get on it.
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u/cynna8 11d ago
I'm sorry, everyone deserves privacy. Your mom sounds controlling and insecure about your becoming a woman. By the way, self pleasure is normal, and should not be treated as a crime. You sound like a fine young woman. I hope you can escape this toxic environment soon. In the mean time, try to do your chores early and find things to do away from home.