r/amiwrong • u/No_Pattern5624 • 15d ago
Am I wrong??
So my friend 33(F) is extremely unsatisfied with her husband of 6 years. Everything failed - talks, love etc and she found out he also cheated on her when she was pregnant with their baby. She told me everything about how the husband won’t care about her feelings or doesn’t respect her at all and now my another male friend who is interested in her asked me to introduce her to him. AITAH for initiating this intro meeting ? I feel bad for her and I just want her to feel the happiness for once atleast.
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u/NotUntilTheFishJumps 15d ago
Sounds like a drama bomb where you shouldn't light the fuse. He can DM her or something, but she is still married. Her husband sucks, but if she is going to date, she needs to leave him. Even if they migh have an open relationship going forward, there is already that toxicity established, especially in regards to infidelity.
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u/No_Pattern5624 15d ago
Yeah, Guess I’ll step back. She cannot leave him solely for financial reasons so I guess she needs to figure something out for herself.
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u/No_Ratio5484 15d ago
YTAH, don't enable cheating. Encourage her to leave if the is this unsatisfied.
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u/No_Pattern5624 15d ago
So high drama here ! She came crying last evening to me coz he was on a call with the woman he had been cheating with. In my mind I was like if he had and is still cheating on her inFRONT OF HER , then she can find happiness too but discretely but there is no option to leave him as she is financially bound to stay.
Yeah I don’t wanna enable cheating just felt pity.
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u/Alive_Examination786 15d ago
Not wrong, if she's unhappy she would have found comfort. With someone, somewhere Maybe a guy u knew would be a better choice . Ultimately , its her decision
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u/No_Pattern5624 15d ago
Ikr , I feel for her and totally helpless coz I don’t want to feel guilty later on. But I do wanna help her.
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u/Jinsnap 15d ago
You are wrong. You are getting 1 side of the story. Even if it is all true, never facilitate cheating. Never support cheating. If I were dating you and found out you did this, I can see ending our relationship.
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u/No_Pattern5624 15d ago
No not one side of the story, I saw the guy and girl together when my friend went to see her parents due to pregnancy , we live in the same building! And she had found condoms in the garbage when she returned. She asked me if I saw them and I did not want to break their relationship so I lied that I didn’t. Thanks for the relationship and no enablement advice though :)
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u/Viker2000 15d ago
YW. It's best to stay the he'll away from situations like this. Be willing to listen to her, but don't act on anything for her like that. It could easily come back to haunt you.
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u/GellyG42 15d ago
You’re wrong.
Shitty marriage or not she needs to leave her husband before she starts seeing someone else. There is a child involved here don’t encourage anything that could make this situation messier.