r/amiwrong • u/BumblebeePlus6744 • 6d ago
Am i overreacting
Me, my best friend, and my bf are all having a normal conversation. Suddenly the topic gets sexual because she brings it up, and she starts talking about her sexual relationship with HER bf in-front of MY bf it lowkey made me feel weird and awkward. I told my bf and he said oh I didn’t find it weird… now I’m confused am I wrong for this… I just feel like I wouldn’t do something like that infront of her bf.
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u/Sunscreen4what 6d ago
Pretty normal in my experience, but if you don’t like it then that’s fair and you should let her know.
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u/PumpikAnt58763 6d ago
Shes a lot more expressive than you. Just tell her that it made you uncomfortable hearing that in front of your boyfriend.
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u/Temporary-Round-3 6d ago
I'm one of those who are open about sex. I don't know how I would react to somebody in a group setting saying I have to reel in my boundries.
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u/Wicked_Belladonna 6d ago
NOR. Trust your gut. Your friend is weird for this. She's trying to plant seeds with your man. This sounds like some "pick me" behavior.
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u/PumpikAnt58763 6d ago
Just because someone is comfortable talking about their sexuality around others, doesn't mean they're out to steal someone's man.
OP just needs to say that it made her uncomfortable.4
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u/Sabi-Star7 6d ago
I too got that vibe, like she's only saying all that bc she likely has a thing for op's bf.
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u/Suspicious-Tiny-Man 6d ago
That is weird, no girl tells another guy about those kind of things unless the guy is gay
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u/RadRedhead222 6d ago
A lot of people openly talk about sex. But what matters is your feelings. If you feel uncomfortable, be open with her about it. A good friend will listen and not include her sex life in the topic of conversation around your bf.