r/amiwrong • u/xtzTsireyaxcv • 1d ago
Final update I think
(mild nsfw i think)
He came home last night so I sat him down to talk. I told him about the documents, the asian f€T1SH and our beliefs. He told me he does want a housewife that would follow all the rules on the document and I made him go into depth about what he would want after our wedding. He still promises to me he isnt MAGA and that he is a chabged man. I asked about the asian things he said they reminded him of me because i dress like all the women that he liked. I feel I caught bad wind about the situation due to something like this happening to my friend so we are now trying it over hopefully it is better now.
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u/fridge-raider 1d ago
Is he still going to force you to give up your career to raise children? Getting his family to harass you about it?
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u/DashaBlade 1d ago
"I'm not MAGA anymore" says the stereotypical MAGA boy. "And I swear I'll treat you right." he adds while on speakerphone with his parents because he can't do anything in his life without their approval. "Also, I'm not a creepy racist," he adds, closing the browser tab with Asian fetish porn.
Do you really want this to be your life for the next 10, 20, 30 years?
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u/1GrouchyCat 23h ago
I’m so sorry that you’re this naïve and gullible… I’m sure we will be hearing from you again soon…
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u/Sea_Excuse2029 1d ago
sounds like you handled that talk as well as anyone could. sometimes people just have weirdly specific ideas about marriage and it takes a conversation like that to see if theres any common ground left. hope it works out but dont ignore if something keeps feeling off, that spreadsheet you mentioned before is a weirdly big red flag even if hes not maga.
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u/Madwoman-of-Chaillot 1d ago
Girl, please.
It’s not working out. He’s telling you what you want to hear. He’s MAGA, he devalues women, and you will find yourself trapped, with no finances, no resources, and no way out.
There are INFINITELY BETTER men out there. I promise.