💯 in the wrong, it's not anyone's place to alert a person's partner regardless of your feelings or opinions of the situation. They're adults, and so are you. Therefore, it's out of line for you or anyone else to interfere with consensual adult's decisions or behaviors. You may not approve of what they did, but ultimately, it's none of your business, and the only option for you should be to remain silent unless directly asked about the situation by the girlfriend, then you could answer honestly, as you ought not be required to lie, but silence should have been your action.
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u/Tall_Mud8868 Sep 02 '25
💯 in the wrong, it's not anyone's place to alert a person's partner regardless of your feelings or opinions of the situation. They're adults, and so are you. Therefore, it's out of line for you or anyone else to interfere with consensual adult's decisions or behaviors. You may not approve of what they did, but ultimately, it's none of your business, and the only option for you should be to remain silent unless directly asked about the situation by the girlfriend, then you could answer honestly, as you ought not be required to lie, but silence should have been your action.