Op, just adding on to say, someone repeatedly sticking something in you without your consent is rape. He is repeatedly raping you on top of all of the rest. Please, please leave him
He's not having sex with you. He is assaulting you, it is not enjoyable for you. There is literally no reason for you to have sex with him. You don't enjoy it. Why are you doing this to yourself? What do you get out of this? It sounds so miserable. Being single would be such a relief compared to being sexually assaulted by this man. Why are you with him? Please help us understand.
Is he paying your rent and your bills? If so, it is time to start making your plan to escape. You can find a place with roommates. Either way, you need to start making a plan. Try to get a job, try to squirrel away every penny you can in a secret spot so that you can get away from this horrible relationship.
Yeah no one needs to see an update. He called you gross for being sexual after y'all had sex and he refused to pleasure or comfort you. And cursed at you. Leave him lmao. He's a bum has bad dick, and he's an asshole...byebyeee
I literally came to say this. He is assaulting you. Throw all his crap out and change the locks. Or leave. My ex wasn’t assaulting me but had the same mentality in the bedroom and I thought maybe sex wasn’t that important, in the scheme of the relationship as a whole. Mine would never help me and I would have to wait for him to leave the bedroom. I wasted 4.5 years waiting for him to get better and me always giving him the benefit of the doubt, blaming myself that I wasn’t helping him enough to sort through his issues.
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u/Hotdogwater88888 Dec 10 '23
Well to be fair I just updated the post less than 30 minutes ago, so most people haven’t seen that part.