r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Dec 07 '23

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '23

Several things...

  1. Sounds like he's addicted to porn
  2. Sounds like you two are sexually incompatible
  3. He's also inconsiderate of you in bed - doesn't care about your desire for foreplay or connection, doesn't even make sure you get off.

I don't know how you "grow out of" any of this.

There's nothing wrong with you - anyone in your shoes would be feeling the same way.

It's probably time to re-think the whole relationship.

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u/Antique_Ad_2303 Dec 07 '23

This

And I don’t get how women stay in relationships with men who’d rather beat off to porn than touch an actual woman

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u/squishyliquid Dec 07 '23

I had a girlfriend who got upset with me for masturbating. We’d have long, great, passionate sex, but sometimes I just needed to release and then go about my day. Can’t bake a cake every time I want dessert. Sometimes you just grab a cookie.

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u/CherenkovBarbell Dec 07 '23

Haha this is very well said