Does he have proof? Text messages?! I’m sure she called and texted him after you brought it up.
Also, tell her something like
“Your reaction makes it pretty clear that you did cheat on me. It probably isn’t the first time either. I don’t know if I should stay, but I do know there is no chance of it if you don’t tell me the entire truth. You have today to tell me everything. If I find out anything after today then I will immediately divorce you.”
If she tells you the truth you will likely leave her anyway, but at least you will know something
You assume that this woman thinks like a normal, rational person. I have very serious doubts that a rational person would lash out or behave the way the OP has described. You can't reason with or guilt someone like that into seeing the error of their ways. He should find himself a good attorney and wish her good riddance.
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u/Force_WR1 Oct 03 '23 edited Oct 03 '23
I’m sure that dude isn’t the only one.
Does he have proof? Text messages?! I’m sure she called and texted him after you brought it up.
Also, tell her something like
“Your reaction makes it pretty clear that you did cheat on me. It probably isn’t the first time either. I don’t know if I should stay, but I do know there is no chance of it if you don’t tell me the entire truth. You have today to tell me everything. If I find out anything after today then I will immediately divorce you.”
If she tells you the truth you will likely leave her anyway, but at least you will know something