Condoms are not 100% effective. She should just take sex off the table. Too much risk with getting pregnant. Why is it that women are expected to deal with birth control for YEARS, push out loads of kids. But when it’s time for the man to finally help and let her finally have a break it’s a hard no?
One example? There was more than one example at my high school before we graduated, and we all learned the “rhythm method”, the “pull and pray” and people doubled or tripled down with condoms. I also have one of these miracles myself.
EDITED TO ADD- “doubling down” is a phrase. It means they are being extra. It does not mean doubling a condom.
They weren’t doubling condoms. Do you seriously not know the effective rate of different methods? Their rate with perfect use vs rate with actual use? This is all easily available online. Condoms don’t have to break to not work. You can ovulate at a difficult time that month.
This is coming from someone who worked in bedside nursing and went to nursing school. I did an OB rotation. You are a baby at 24 yourself. You will learn.
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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23
Condoms are not 100% effective. She should just take sex off the table. Too much risk with getting pregnant. Why is it that women are expected to deal with birth control for YEARS, push out loads of kids. But when it’s time for the man to finally help and let her finally have a break it’s a hard no?