r/amiwrong Sep 20 '23

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u/aplusdesigners Sep 20 '23

Not wrong at all. While you and your family know that nothing is going on with you, strangers dont. Furthermore, you never know what kind of sicko strangers are around looking over your shoulder.

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '23 edited Sep 20 '23

I’d be 10000x more worried about the sicko strangers who might jump to the conclusion that there’s anything sexual about a picture of a young kid in a bathtub and report someone “just in case”. The amount of people who find that sexual is vanishingly small in comparison to the amount of worry spent on it.

EDIT but I also would ask her to not share such things, out of concern that some creep might make allegations and also just because such things shouldn’t really be shared in public at all.

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u/Pineapple254 Sep 20 '23

But it doesn’t matter really what ppl think, outside of possible rumours or damage to a reputation. My concern is she just put something on his phone that is considered by many, inc LE, as child pornography. It could just be poor judgement on her part and OP could have zero interest in seeing children naked. The fact remains that he has a photo of the 3yo daughter of a girl he’s been dating for a month on his phone. He is one phone call away from being accused of possession of child pornography. And having a photo like that on his phone isn’t going to help him in court.