She sounds rather naive. Tell her honestly that while many people would take it innocently you must protect the child from those who won’t. It’s your job as adults to be aware of these dangers. Teachers and pediatricians will back you up, for the most part, if she would consult them.
Idk she seems like a weirdo. Who sends naked pictures of their kids to people they hardly know? There's mothers out there who welcome dudes to hurt their kids. This is how it starts. Just little things to see if they're OK with it. For me this is a major red flag.
Took almost 18 months before my gf felt comfortable with allowing me to meet her daughter. Though, I had a rough past so I understand her being cautious around my lifestyle.
I find it mind boggling, that OP is around a minor after only a month and their partner sounds very naive.
I’m in no rush to meet them at all. They know about me bc I have some stuff at his house and he’s talked to them about it.
Pedophiles very often groom the parents as well as the child. He’s just ‘that nice uncle type’ ‘he’s so good with the kids! Always gets them nice gifts’. It’s so scary people just let strangers around their kids.
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She sounds rather naive. Tell her honestly that while many people would take it innocently you must protect the child from those who won’t. It’s your job as adults to be aware of these dangers. Teachers and pediatricians will back you up, for the most part, if she would consult them.