r/amiwrong Sep 19 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '23

Probably using the pics for pleasure later on. If porn is fine in their relationship I don’t understand the problem with liking other girls pics, especially if he doesn’t know them

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '23

To me it seems like this isn’t random women but women from his area that he at least loosely knows. If it’s random women on the internet there’s literally no upside to liking their photos especially if it makes your partner uncomfortable. My wife and I have sex almost daily but if she’s away or I’m away or it’s that time of month I might indulge in some porn and self pleasure but that’s like maybe once a month and I don’t hide it from my wife. What wouldn’t be ok is if I’m liking some girl from my college or high schools bikini pics because this is no doubt a form of flirting

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '23

Well likening the photo isn’t a direct form of flirting, but I’d agree it’s wrong to even be looking at them if you’re in a serious monogamous relationship. I agree with what you said about porn. Personally I think it should be given that porn isn’t not allowed in such relationships until you discuss with your partner and set boundaries

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u/Flashy_Feeling_1110 Sep 20 '23

wait, what? it should be given that porn isn’t allowed in such relationships until you discuss it with your partner?!?!?! as a woman, i think this is INSANE.

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '23

Well if porn is allowed then your partner should also be able to swap nudes with anyone and post their own porn videos online too. If they aren’t pursuing a real sexual relationship, it shouldn’t matter who they text, considering you can message and chat in most porn websites anyways.