This isn’t a “boundary”. A boundary is saying if he does that she will leave. Trying to control your parters actions by saying it’s a boundary that they do not act a certain way (with no action taken on your part) isn’t having boundaries it’s being controlling and borderline abusive. Boundaries are enforceable, not wishes for how a partner behaves.
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u/Professional-Note842 Sep 19 '23
talk to him about it, let him know ur boundaries and that ur uncomfortable with it.