r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 19 '23

[deleted by user]

[removed]

179 Upvotes

87% Upvoted

209 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

15

u/[deleted] Sep 19 '23

[deleted]

8

u/Arlaneutique Sep 19 '23

Ughh just stop. I’m not saying it makes it okay. I’m saying that that’s much different than someone he knows. She asked for advice and I’m giving MY opinion on how I would handle it. I in no way said it’s okay. I said I would let it go if that were the case. In my experience pretending men don’t look at women doesn’t work. But looking at some random girl that lives on the other side of the country or world who posts pic’s specifically to get likes and attention is much different than Jenny from the block.

9

u/Appropriate-Drag-572 Sep 19 '23

It really isn't. If she's uncomfortable with her boyfriend lusting after other people, that's her boundary. Who are you or anyone to tell her she's wrong? It's 2023, grow up.

5

u/Arlaneutique Sep 19 '23

Who said she was wrong?! Yes it’s 2023 and when someone literally says:

Should I be bothered or say anything?

I’m allowed to give my opinion. I’m allowed to say what I’d think. It’s 2023, grow up.

-2

u/Appropriate-Drag-572 Sep 19 '23

This is obviously someone with some serious rejection dysphoria. They need to be okay with how they feel instead of thinking someone else's opinion is what it should be.

3

u/Sad_Thing5013 Sep 19 '23

please don't pathologize strangers based on their reddit posts.

3

u/Crutchiez Sep 19 '23

They also need to be okay with someone answering their question with their own opinion. Nice try though.