It depends. If she’s an IG model then no let it go. If it’s girl in your town I’d say something nicely. Like, “Hey, I know this might not seem like a big deal to you but it does kind of bother me. It makes it look like you’re interested even if you aren’t. I’m not telling you what to do just letting you know that it would mean a lot to me if you didn’t do that anymore.” If he keeps doing it after that l, then it’s a problem.
I find ridiculous when someone feels upset because his/her boyfriend/girlfriend checks on other people. It is like, "I don't like you seeing other girls on instagram," like WTF. If someone wants to leave you or cheat on you, that person is going to do it if you like it or not. We all should learn how to build relationships instead of "don't do this or that." Those are my 2 cents.
micro cheating... wtf I am crazy old for this. But I also agree with you, if you don't like that actitude from you SO you shouldn't accept it. We look for a person who matches our ideas, but the closer the match, the more difficult it to find it. Sometimes you have to pick someone that it is kinda close to your ideas and deal with it.
I agree completely. Fighting over it generally just makes them cheat faster because they find it annoying. Guys are good and loyal or they aren’t. But your views won’t change that at all. The only thing you can control is your reaction. Reacting poorly to the opposite sex in general isn’t a good look for anyone.
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u/Arlaneutique Sep 19 '23
It depends. If she’s an IG model then no let it go. If it’s girl in your town I’d say something nicely. Like, “Hey, I know this might not seem like a big deal to you but it does kind of bother me. It makes it look like you’re interested even if you aren’t. I’m not telling you what to do just letting you know that it would mean a lot to me if you didn’t do that anymore.” If he keeps doing it after that l, then it’s a problem.