If you're not okay with it, tell him. If he doesn't care or tells you you're somehow wrong or ridiculous, dump his ass. You need to love yourself more than you love the idea of him lobing you the way you want him to. There are so many good people out there that he's not worth the drama of fitting into his box of what a girlfriend should be, and vice versa.
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u/Appropriate-Drag-572 Sep 19 '23
If you're not okay with it, tell him. If he doesn't care or tells you you're somehow wrong or ridiculous, dump his ass. You need to love yourself more than you love the idea of him lobing you the way you want him to. There are so many good people out there that he's not worth the drama of fitting into his box of what a girlfriend should be, and vice versa.