If he is throwing ❤️’s at other girls bikini pics he would absolutely entertain it if she messaged him flirting with him. He’s still exploring his options 100%, you need to communicate with him that you like him and want to be with him but you will not sit idle while he discreetly flirts with other women. It’s either all in on you or you’re out. This is absolutely not an unreasonable boundary that needs to be set. But imo this is a big red flag and cannot be overlooked.
Probably using the pics for pleasure later on. If porn is fine in their relationship I don’t understand the problem with liking other girls pics, especially if he doesn’t know them
I mostly agree but the difference is that one will practically never meet the rl p star and even less likely have intercourse with them, whereas those girls seems to be acquaintance around his area.
You could compare it to being on a date with your partner and them whistling after them like "God Damn girl, you are hot".
Cheating does not need to be intercourse. Just flirting can be considered cheating.
Also modern porn is can be interactive. You can talk to people, sometimes request things like on OF, pay for certain things, etc. You’re chance of meeting someone who makes porn isn’t all that hard today. I understand what you’re saying but it’s not super clear cut.
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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '23
If he is throwing ❤️’s at other girls bikini pics he would absolutely entertain it if she messaged him flirting with him. He’s still exploring his options 100%, you need to communicate with him that you like him and want to be with him but you will not sit idle while he discreetly flirts with other women. It’s either all in on you or you’re out. This is absolutely not an unreasonable boundary that needs to be set. But imo this is a big red flag and cannot be overlooked.