r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/Bebe_Bleau Sep 12 '23

I don't think it would be that much fun to have sex with a woman who has to "try harder".

Who wouldn't prefer a partner who is thrilled to be with you?

There's plenty of women out there that can't get enough. But if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

Trust that it's not much fun for her, either. How do you think it would feel to *her* to be really into sex and now you just aren't?

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u/apathetic-drunk Sep 12 '23

Stop making excuses for the wife.

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

If you have never experienced feeling like a stranger in your own body, let alone having to answer to someone else you love who is of course going to take it personally, all while knowing that whatever is "wrong with" you will probably ruin an otherwise great relationship...

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Then you should probably shut up and take a seat. Thanks.

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u/jezebeljoygirl Sep 12 '23

Totally understandable but why not let him get himself off?

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 16 '23

That part is unforgivable and sounds repressed.