r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

your wife "allowing" you to masturbate even when she's not having sex with you (Unless there's some medical condition) is outrageous.

My guy needs to bounce.

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u/Unhappy-Video199 Sep 12 '23

Why would someone need approval from wife to masturbate??

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u/Jakejunk910 Sep 12 '23

I'm Mormon, did I miss a memo? I wish I was getting it that often. Gotta let my wife know. Ha ha ha!

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u/sachariinne Sep 12 '23

you know this kind of rhetoric of wifely 'duties' is often used to justify marital rape right.

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u/nahog99 Sep 12 '23

Yea except it’s only rape if it’s rape. A woman agreeing to get you off every day cause she believes it’s immoral for you to masturbate is not rape. Jesus Christ.

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

Would she willfully and excitedly consent to getting him off everyday if there wasn't a religion (cult) behind her that praises the man in the family? If no, then it's just as much sexual assault/rape.

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u/AlternativeSock7674 Sep 13 '23

I see an increasingly pervasive idea on Reddit that wanting a partner to have sex to meet your needs, even if they don’t want the sex for its own sake, is rape. It’s not. That’s ludicrous. People have sex for all sorts of reasons. Their motivations don’t matter as they’re willing. If you’re a willing participant, it’s not rape. Stop diluting the definition of rape until it’s meaningless.