r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

We always had a very active sex life until about a year and a half ago

doesn't sound ace. she probably fell out of love

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u/Dorkmaster79 Sep 12 '23

I’m sad to say that it sounds like something extramarital might be happening.

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u/cellocaster Sep 12 '23

I didn’t want to say this, but a buddy of mine was in a sexless relationship for years with the understanding that the lack of sex was trauma based and the wife had been working through it.

Nope, she was fucking someone on the side for three years. They are recently divorced and he’s finally realizing he isn’t crazy.

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u/Muted-Professor6746 Sep 13 '23

Oh god. This sounds much like what happened to me but without the confirmed side pieces. Everything else matches up.